KathyM Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 I don't think you know enough about their relationship at the time to do anything about it now.
Author markus36 Posted March 4, 2013 Author Posted March 4, 2013 This is too much mental energy being spent on a relationship that is over. Let it go and move on with your life in a positive direction. Isn't that the point of this site? We're NC now, and have been for a while. I won't send the email, it's just tempting
geegirl Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 I don't know that for sure (but that's not the point) - it's just I'd like him to know that she was "head over heels in love" with me, and it hurts that I was swept under the carpet like a dirty secret. No, that is the point. Are you serious? You don't even know yet you want to poke your nose in a relationship and possibly tarnish and damage it because you're bitter?
Minneloa Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 I understand that you are hurting, and of course you have a right to vent. But an equally valuable function of this site is for folks to offer their perspectives. Mine is that you are spinning your wheels on this particular issue.
KatZee Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 Oh I did this back in high school. I was seeing this guy, and I found out he was seeing another girl behind my back. This girl came to my house like a PSYCHO and my mother threatened to call the cops because she was screaming like a lunatic saying that I WAS the "other girl" meanwhile SHE WAS!!! (This guy was a clear class act just lying up and down). Anyway, a little later on I found out he was cheating on HER with someone he worked with. This was back in the days where everyone used AIM, so I made a brand new screen name and pretended to be this guy who had a huge crush on her. I told her "I love you so much and this is why I'm telling you this. XXX is cheating on you with XXX." She fell for it. Hook, line, sinker. She thought I was this completely different person. I blew up the player's spot. He messaged me next asking to meet up so he could "fight me" in person. LMAO. They broke up that same night. She was a psycho, but whatever. I did her a favor!
A n t h o n y Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 You sound like a stalker...... Not even going to lie.
Author markus36 Posted March 4, 2013 Author Posted March 4, 2013 You sound like a stalker...... Not even going to lie. Well, I'm definitely unhealthily over involved with someone who I should have got over months ago - but then, that's why I'm here (and no doubt, a lot of us)
Amelie1980 Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 My first ex now has a wife and child. Perhaps she already knows that he is violent (physically and emotionally) and unfaithful ny nature. But chats for her to find out.
A n t h o n y Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 You're just setting yourself up to get hurt over and over. Here's the mindset you need. The Ex doesn't give a **** about me so why should I give a **** about them? Move on, better yourself, make them realize what they lost. I know it's easier said than done but trust me it's possible.
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