Small town girl Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 Damn, it's hard, I was so afraid of this day! :'( He wrote in this forum of dating that he's seeing someone now, and he even wrote about her a little... Just an hour ago, I checked the "homepage" of his facebook (we are not friends there, I just saw his main page, and there was a picture of them both, sitting next to each other, smiling...damn, it was hard for me, I even cried a little...he looks so happy with her :'( what do I do now? how do I continue to my day, to what I have to do, without thinking about him? how do I get over that?
th90 Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 You need to stop checking up on him. Go complete NC, which includes no cyber stalking. I learnt the hard way too. There is no way you'll automatically stop thinking about him. Just give it more time. I've been in NC for nearly 4 months now and I realize I don't really think so much of my ex like I obsessively did just a month back. Pick yourself up and get busy! The pain will go away 1
TaraMaiden Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 Read my No Contact Guide signature (see link) and do not fall into the description of clingy stalker. It's beneath your dignity to do that. Does he know you've followed him onto here? That really is a bit creepy and disrespectful. Not a good idea, hun.... Read the Guide.....
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