charlietheginger Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 I've read on this site several men posting. I've met the girl of my dreams She is really hot ... So your dreams only consists of a womens appearance? What about.... Companionship Compatibility Characteristic qualities Goals Hopes Dreams Kids Employment I see this time and time again SHE IS AWSOME then later. She slept with more partners then i have, She has no job,her ex is stalking her, blah blah blah. Before you guys really think you met the woman of your Dreams trying giving it 3 months and then make the claim 1
bodhesatva Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 Part of the reason people can do this is that they can fill in the blanks for the rest of it. Let's take "Hopes" and "Compatibility" just as examples. Those are things you cannot really know on the first date, or even the first week. Really understanding someone's hopes and dreams and finding out how truly comparability you are can take months, even years. But "she's hot?" You don't even need to wait for a first date to know that. A lot of people see that, then fill in the blanks for the rest with whatever they want to believe. Just to be clear: I'm not saying this is a good idea, I'm just explaining why people act like this. 1
MrCastle Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 I can't help myself. I'm a dreamer by nature. I think every girl I connect with is the girl of my dreams until she does something to taint that and ruin our relationship. A boyfriend she took forever to mention. Kids. Drug use. Whatever. It's always something. If I am to play the odds, certainly I'll meet the real girl of my dreams eventually.
iKING Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 I met the girl of my dreams. I have sex with her when I want, I only need to hang out with her as much as I want, and am not required to meet her friends or parents. On top of that she doesn't believe in marriage. Is she a hooker? 2
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