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What do I say to a girl that I like? I never know what to say and I need help. How do I start and maintain a conversation with a girl?

 

I'm not exactly a genius at getting girlfriends :(

 

No jokes, I need serious advice please.

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Start with a hi.

 

Then proceed to a how are you?

 

Doesn't need to be any bigger then that at first. Then next time, introduce yourself. Do not forget the hi, how are you. Then introduce yourself, saying, "Oh, by the way, I am soso" Do not shake her hand as if you are an employee or business person, lol..

 

Then, maybe comment on where you work, it might open dialogue as to where she works, ask her how she likes that. Maybe make a joke about work...

 

Women aren't that harsh, trust me. Oh my! You are from central florida?!

 

Heh...Hm, that is awfully close!

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Start with a hi.

 

Then proceed to a how are you?

 

Doesn't need to be any bigger then that at first. Then next time, introduce yourself. Do not forget the hi, how are you. Then introduce yourself, saying, "Oh, by the way, I am soso" Do not shake her hand as if you are an employee or business person, lol..

 

Then, maybe comment on where you work, it might open dialogue as to where she works, ask her how she likes that. Maybe make a joke about work...

 

Women aren't that harsh, trust me. Oh my! You are from central florida?!

 

Heh...Hm, that is awfully close!

 

Other topics besides work? As if I don't think about it enough.

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:) Hm, sure would be nice to get a woman to respond to this thread, maybe an idea of mine could work...

 

Well, it is different to type it. But a woman on here could easily teach you and let you practice in this thread on what to say!! No, ah to be serious here:

 

Talk about hobbies. Favorite type of movies. Maybe even a favorite dish. Nothing too big, nothing too bad. Maybe a favorite place of theres. Do not say, a favorite place of yours youd like to go...till you know them better...

 

You know, anything will do really. As long as it isn't creepy or overly sexualized. Women mainly care if: you can hold a good conversation; appear somewhat confident. Maybe even slightly funny.

 

Holding a good conversation is very important. It shows how well you can communicate, and that is a key to a relationship.

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:) Hm, sure would be nice to get a woman to respond to this thread, maybe an idea of mine could work...

 

Well, it is different to type it. But a woman on here could easily teach you and let you practice in this thread on what to say!! No, ah to be serious here:

 

Talk about hobbies. Favorite type of movies. Maybe even a favorite dish. Nothing too big, nothing too bad. Maybe a favorite place of theres. Do not say, a favorite place of yours youd like to go...till you know them better...

 

You know, anything will do really. As long as it isn't creepy or overly sexualized. Women mainly care if: you can hold a good conversation; appear somewhat confident. Maybe even slightly funny.

 

Holding a good conversation is very important. It shows how well you can communicate, and that is a key to a relationship.

 

Thanks. My communication skills are average but I've won a couple of dates nonetheless, it would be nice if I could practice with some girl.

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Ah...well, it is different to type it out...and I doubt they really would. LS women are mean, and I am frankly scared of them...lol

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I'm going to give you an "inside" tip for use now & in the future.

 

US GIRLS LOVE TO TALK ABOUT OURSELVES :D

 

We can have a one sided, one hour conversation about our favorite color*

 

Simple questions:

What is your favorite color? (If she's wearing said color, compliment her)

What type of music do you listen to? ( listen & memorize her music style)

What draws you to that style music?

Do you have siblings? (How many? Older? Younger? Then answer in kind)

 

Before night is over, Tell her your intentions. Ie; "I had a great time and would like to do this again. May I take you out next Friday/Saturday?"

 

For second date, take your new found knowledge and incorporate it into your next date.

She loves pink? Buy her tiger lilies.

She loves country or jazz or whatever, then go to a restaraunt playing that music. Ever heard of dueling piano bars? Way fun!

Good luck*

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Oh...?? It's a woman!!! I am so outta here, these LS women will beat you up....rubs head* I remember the last time....

 

Mean, mean women. Tough as nails, and mean...Anyway to be serious, that is soo true Cominginhottness

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Oh...?? It's a woman!!! I am so outta here, these LS women will beat you up....rubs head* I remember the last time....

 

Mean, mean women. Tough as nails, and mean...Anyway to be serious, that is soo true Cominginhottness

 

:lmao: lol!

 

Alpha male here I'll tame her :p

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:lmao: lol!

 

Alpha male here I'll tame her :p

 

 

Lol...you do not understand LS women just yet...but you will...they are scarier then a lion...

 

:p I guess I will always just be a beta male....hm...*laughs* :p no it's all good. See thats the way man. Have a sense of humor, do not be afraid to take a hit on yourself, a joke. Just not one that is gonna demean you too badly...

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Lol...you do not understand LS women just yet...but you will...they are scarier then a lion...

 

:p I guess I will always just be a beta male....hm...*laughs* :p no it's all good. See thats the way man. Have a sense of humor, do not be afraid to take a hit on yourself, a joke. Just not one that is gonna demean you too badly...

 

What does "LS" mean?

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Loveshack. :p I am thrilled! You are from central Florida, hm, maybe the polk/tampa region? Mighty close to me..

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LS women scary?

Maybe a few ;)

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Loveshack. :p I am thrilled! You are from central Florida, hm, maybe the polk/tampa region? Mighty close to me..

 

I'm in Daytona Beach

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I'm in Daytona Beach

 

 

Ohhhh......i seee

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LS women scary?

Maybe a few ;)

 

 

Well, not the babyfaced ones /wink :p I can tell by that pic, the baby-face mountain beauty! :love: im in love now!!!!!!

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Oh brother :laugh:

Remember how you "joked" on page one about being able to laugh at yourself if you make a mistake?

This is one of those times...

I'm old enough to be your Aunt most likely.

 

But thanks for the compliment*

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Oh brother :laugh:

Remember how you "joked" on page one about being able to laugh at yourself if you make a mistake?

This is one of those times...

I'm old enough to be your Aunt most likely.

 

But thanks for the compliment*

 

 

Really? I am pretty old myself...Besides I can only see the top part of your face/cheeks. I did not make a mistake. A lady should be complimented. And age isn't a thing of ugliness. I find beauty in such a wisdom. :D

 

That is if, well, the person is wise in their age...I judge beauty differently then most others. Madam, you still have a baby face :)

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