PhillyDude Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 I think I will try to do something a little different now and date outside of my race. A friend of mine recently did this and has found her match so I think it's time for me to branch out and experience something different. 1
iKING Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 Nothing wrong with it. It's not going to make things any easier or secure success, but it will open up your options. Keep in mind though, women are still women regardless of race. 1
runningfar Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 I think I will try to do something a little different now and date outside of my race. A friend of mine recently did this and has found her match so I think it's time for me to branch out and experience something different. I don't think you should tell the girls you are looking to "experience something different" Nothing wrong with dating anybody of any race... but women are still women and each one is different by virtue of personality.
Author PhillyDude Posted March 3, 2013 Author Posted March 3, 2013 I don't think you should tell the girls you are looking to "experience something different" Nothing wrong with dating anybody of any race... but women are still women and each one is different by virtue of personality. I never said I planned on mentioning that.
snowflakes88 Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 As a black woman, I think this is an EXCELLENT idea!!!
quietGuy13 Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 Just OUtside of race doesn't relaly work. What works is outside of culture or even language. for example i'm American, i have no chance with american women. They're never attracted to me cause i'm quiet. The Asian women from china or some other country instantly become friends with me.
Sivok Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 Just OUtside of race doesn't relaly work. What works is outside of culture or even language. for example i'm American, i have no chance with american women. They're never attracted to me cause i'm quiet. The Asian women from china or some other country instantly become friends with me.For a quiet guy you sure have alot to say on these forums. You just need to build your confidence and self esteem- there are plenty of sites for that. Dating outside of your culture is fun, but as iKing said, women are women. You'll find women with great and not-so-great intentions in each one.
meeji Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 I don't know if I agree with that. Latina woman seem to be a lot more openminded and less judgmental. I can't say the same for black woman Statements like this, i find offensive. I dont know where you are getting your generalizatins from but before you start yourdating outside of your race, you can have these kinds of opinions about people you havent even met yet. You need to see people as individuals because we are not always the same.
amlosingmymind Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 I'm Chinese, I never dated a guy from a different culture before until I met my bf last year. He's American and we work together. When you started falling into someone you will realize people are people. Maybe we're from different cultures and even speaking different languages sometime, but that's not a reason for two people not being together, nor a reason for two people being together. Of course, there will be many problems about cultures and languages, but still everything is different that worth trying.
CudLRoo Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 ^Exactly. It's all about ATTRACTION, I wonder how many neo-Nazi dudes have actually dug women of opposite races - I'm guessing maybe 80%? (Other 20% liked male blacks, arabs or Hispanics). You just cannot stop attraction, simple as. It just can't be faked, just like any other powerful urge. 1
charlietheginger Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 Im dating outside my race. Im a mix of 50% scottish 25%irish 25% french 25%euro Asian mixed. i have redhair freckles hazel eyes. I consider my heritage To be northern europe mongrel mix. My girl friend is italian spanish mix. Dark skin dark eyes. She loves my hair freckles and nordic north european jawline and chin. And my slight euroasian look in my cheekbones. So id say yes its fine to date outside your race. Many times Opposites attract
bodhesatva Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 Of course people have dated outside their race and had success. People have also dated outside their race and had failure. By far the best thing about being willing to "date outside your race" is that you enormously expand your options. Let's say you're white. If you suddenly are willing to also date hispanic, black, and asian men (or women), then you have just about doubled your total dating pool. If you live in some parts of the country, you more than double your dating pool. Just on that fact alone, you're likely to have better chances because you have more people to choose from.
JuneJulySeptember Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 I've never really thought about race when dating. I mean there are some races I prefer physically, but I am physically attracted to many women of all races. Furthermore, it goes without saying that to categorize a whole race of women as having a certain set of characteristics/cultural traits is well, racist. Of course, it further goes without saying that I am always in the minority when it comes to dating and dating philosophies and that most people do like to stick to their own kind. So, there you go. Hey, you asked. 1
Feelin Frisky Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 I've had more dark meat than white. I didn't go out of my way for that to happen. I just worked with mostly black people for two decades and partied with them. I like a lot of things the ones I knew did that white people didn't--like byob parties. Everyone brought something, whereas in white world, people seem to feel the host has to put out everything. Parties happened less in white circles because of that IMO. Black folk had a lot of get-togethers--boat rides on the Hudson, masonic mixers and what not--always dancing (white parties no one danced). And black females have always seemed less repressed and stuck up. I shacked up with one for five years. I had hoped to meet someone white and have a baby that looked like me but was unlucky. I could be happy with another mixed race thing. I'm beyond baby thoughts. It's not that I couldn't deal with mixed race kids, I just wanted my son to look like dad, but daughters of color would be lovely and loved. The end.
IndianGuy87 Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 White guys shouldn't have a problem dating a girl of any race because white guys are seen as the superior men by girls. White guys are the most preferred guys to date by every girl and the most common interracial couples involve white guys. I'm an Indian guy and we along with Asian guys are at the complete bottom of the list when it comes to success with women. Non-Indian women find our skin color and features really ugly so it's pretty much pointless for me to try dating outside my own race. You would rarely see women saying we are good looking.
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