tcd421 Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 Were to begin... up till the beginning of November 2012 i had been in a relationship of almost 4 years. Then comes in the other woman, i will call her J My story with her actually went back to may 2012, the engine in my car blew up and i could not afford to fix or replace it. So J offered to left me use her car on occasion, which i was grateful for. At the time J had a live in boyfriend who was cool with things. eventually i started getting hints that she wanted something more, mainly in texts. Fast forward to October by then i had feelings for her as well and after a fateful night together in her car, i made my move and 2 weeks later i broke it off with my ex. The first 6 weeks with J was awesome, she was everything i wanted and more. Then the bad started. first was she started having some rather concerning health issuses, then issues with her children. i was ready to sick with her no what life brought her way. She spent 2 days in the hospital, and after she came home everything changed. basically did not want to be near me, though she did not say as much. she was going through alot and thought i could just ride it out and just be there for her and it would get better. Well it didn't and 2 days after Christmas she broke things off with me, did not want a relationship just wanted to be my friend. by this time she was also had become close friends with my sister. for 2 weeks after i hung in there thought i convince her to give me another chance. didn't happen. so i continued to make nice with her till i finally got my own wheels again, and since then my thoughts and attitude towards her have steadily gotten worse. So here i am now, basically stuck in an almost unbearable situation, moving is not an option for me or her. I am trying to move on have seen have seen a few other women and even talked to the woman i was with before J came in our lives.
Follower Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 Im sorry but from reading that you really reap what you sow champ, Considering what people on this forum go through and knowing what people have gone through i dont know what your complaining about?! You had a relationship of 4 years threw that away for a fling and wonder why it comes round to bite you in the arse? Your Ex Ex(the 4 year relationship) i seriously feel for, she shouldnt have to put up with you getting back in contact because your egos bruised after you broke her heart... Get over yourself pick yourself up and make yourself better.
Author tcd421 Posted March 3, 2013 Author Posted March 3, 2013 You are right what I am going through now is my fault. I have to live with that. I did apologize to my ex ex, and she forgave me and to this day wants me back but, I don't want to go back there. J alone wasn't the cause of our split.
Follower Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 So the next thing is what was the cause of you and your Ex Ex splitting up, and that leads on to how are you going to change your current situation to make things better for yourself?
Author tcd421 Posted April 20, 2013 Author Posted April 20, 2013 Well I am back, I have cut off all contact with my neighbor ex, word is also she plans to move. R Still wants be back but she also knows why haven't done it. I'm not crazy about her living situation. she is on disability, and lives with her mom and brother. they are only keeping her around for her money, are really no good for her mentally. plus the place reeks of cat piss which is why when i do go there i'm not there very long. we still go out and do stuff and she has stayed a few times at my place. i'm just not ready to re commit to her at this time. she understands the way i feel.
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