prism Posted September 4, 2004 Posted September 4, 2004 I have a problem. I know sex isn't the only important thing in a relationship but my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months and have not had sex for 2. the first time we slept together, i was sick and was on antihistamines and i'm a very innocent girl so i ended up asking him if we did in fact go all the way. he took it the wrong way and took it personally as if it meant that he was not "enough" which is not how i meant it at all. i just used the wrong choice of words. it's not true at all and i want him now more than ever...it's very frustrating and i don't know what to do. everytime i make advances, i get rejected and it makes me very sad to a point that i'm thinking that maybe he doesn't wanna have sex with me but he says it's not me, it's just his insecurities. there's nothing wrong with him at all...he's a handsome guy and would not have trouble fulfilling me sexually. i love him and it hurts not being able to be intimate with him. does anyone have any advice for me? thanks!
Samson Posted September 4, 2004 Posted September 4, 2004 it's just his insecurities. Like what, for example, does he feel are his "insecurities." Is he, ...........um........., shortchanged in some obvious way?
ps123 Posted September 6, 2004 Posted September 6, 2004 Hi, I also take antihistamines on occasion and they tend to make me pretty sleepy also. I sometimes even take them when Im having trouble sleeping. Im not exactly sure what you mean by asking him if you went all the way though. Antihistamines never get me to the point of being that groggy that I dont know if I had sex or not. Can you explain a little more?
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