coffeeloverx Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 Alright, I need some serious advice. I have no idea what to do. I've completely hit rock bottom in life in general. Things had been going fine and dandy. However, a few days ago, I had about a bajillion things thrown my way. I saw my ex with another girl for the first time and that was a hard blow, like I don't even know how I feel about that. I've also been having family issues up the wazoo and I'm arguing with pretty much everybody, all the time. Things at work are a struggle for I always seem to mess up and I can't seem to do anything right for anybody. Sooo, last night I went and chopped my hair off at like 3:00 a.m. It was about chest length and I cut it to above my chin. It looks horrible. I've spent the entire day laying in bed and sobbing, I just don't know what to do, like I have no idea. I'm planning on calling my therapist, but what do I do? I mean, honestly, I'm so frustrated and feeling so helpless.
Phoebe Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 Make yourself two appointments, one with a therapist and one with a hairdresser. Your therapist will be able to advise you better than I could. I do know though that the more active you are in making changes in your life, setting small goals and achieving them at first, the better you will feel. 1
gravi1 Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 I can relate to that. The impact of seeing your ex with another, that is utter rejection, seeing they are so happy and you so sad and alone. All types of emotions including comparisons. It is a difficult situation but not one without a solution. The solution is time and patience. Please do go see your therapist right away. I would also say be with other people that you know accept and love you. You are beautifull though I havent seen you, every woman is, you have unique values and there is no other like you. You have your part to play in this world, you were not born to crave that man and have him break you like this, please know that there are men out there who will adore and keep your heart for just loving them,like you do him. its his loss. You must and will serve a much important purpose and therefore a fitting person will join you soon. Allow your heart to grieve but dont torture yourself, do not be sure that all is lost, just like we do not know when we will pass you cant know if tomorow wont bring a better outlook on your life, tell yourself-tomorow I will not feel this way
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