Ex playing games

[Jaymoo]

Me and my boyfriend broke up 6 weeks ago he is quite depressed and really stubborn he used to turn silly disagreements into major fights and one day he was huffing with me cz I said I dunno if I'd b able to afford to go on holiday with me. He turned this into a whole big fight and started getting paranoid saying when I went on my friends hen weekend guys where gonna try go with me. He got on like this when we where on nights out also. Anyway he said where not suited for eachother ect yet the day before he was saying how well we are suited. This happened before when e dumped me cz I got drunk and we had a fight and we didnt talk for 4 months then we bumped into eachother and we where going together 7 months the next time. Anyways this time I didn't contact him sent him a msg pissed but I don't get a reply. I saw him drive past me and a friend one day and I noticed he had then unblocked me on fb the next day but then blocked me again the next day. I decided to email him and he was annoyed at first but then said hopefully some day we can b friends. I'm going through quite a hard time ATM with family things and I ended up sending him an email not thinking right saying I needed to tell him stuff. I thought he didn't get it but he act texted me asking what was up I just said I was fine ect and he kept texting saying if something was up to tell him but I said I was fine I was just reaching out ect. But then he contined to text me ask what was up it was good we where talking but regular contact isn't good for either of us. So I didn't wb then he started asking was I playing games not wb ect. I explained in the morning about how I felt and that mayb pushed him away when we where together he said me and him didnt work and we move on ect and I didn't wb. He texted later on asking was I ok and I said I'd be fine. And he asked me to phone r meet him for coffee that he knows I'm going thru a tough time and that where not together but he still cares. I dunno how that would help either of us. But I said mayb next week and he said the offer is there. We where texting the next day and keeping it light hearted ect. Then the next day I asked him was he going with this girl ( I new he wasn't tho I was annoyed he was talking to her) and he flipped saying he can talk to who he wants ( which I agreed) and that she's not his type and she's just his mate. And that in future who he dates is his bizz not anyone else's. I agreed and said he didn't have to b cheeky ect and he said that he was just being straight and did I realise me and him where just mates. Ect I said that's fine. Then he said look in the future when me and him decide to date other ppl we should never discuss it with eachother I said I didn't have a prob with who he was dating and he said it would just b weird but mayb in the future it won't be. Anyways we where bk to texting normally and I told him I was going on a date ( I was just joking) and he told me to shut up. Then told me to clear off. So I didn't wb then 30 min later he texted me again asking me did my sis call round last night ( when I already told him she didn't) we chatted normal and I said how mature I think we where being ect and he said it was all good he wants to meet me Monday to catch up. Few of my friends say he's doing it cz it's on his terms and his rules and he's mayb doing it to see what I'm like ect to leave the door open. He's only had one gf bar me and only slept with me and her so its not like he's a player or anything. I just don't know weither to meet r not cz I know my feeling will come bk and I would say his would also . Thanks for reading xx