PhillyDude Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 I don't see anything wrong with a practice date. I mean how else is a guy supposed to get better at dating???????????
PhillyDude Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 Please do not. Us women dont like being settled for. Let her find someone who is attracted to her Women normally don't know if a guy is settling for her.
Necris Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 I don't see anything wrong with a practice date. I mean how else is a guy supposed to get better at dating??????????? Dating isn't really much of a skill, either you like each other or you don't really. Plus unattractive women are usually not more open to your approaches, she is just as likely to reject you as any other woman. Remember just because she may not look good to you doesn't mean she'll be more attracted to you, she still wants a certain guy and if you aren't that guy you'll be unattractive to her. So most likely you both are thinking of each other as unattractive and you may both think you are settling (if you aren't rejected right off the bat that is).
PhillyDude Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 Dating isn't really much of a skill, either you like each other or you don't really. Plus unattractive women are usually not more open to your approaches, she is just as likely to reject you as any other woman. Remember just because she may not look good to you doesn't mean she'll be more attracted to you, she still wants a certain guy and if you aren't that guy you'll be unattractive to her. So most likely you both are thinking of each other as unattractive and you may both think you are settling (if you aren't rejected right off the bat that is). Guys who should so do this are the ones who are Shy and Handsome. Not Ugly
ascendotum Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 It wouldn't be let out too willingly. I think you'd become pretty aware of it once the intimacy level superseded any benefit of practice she was getting out of it. I can't see a girl kissing a guy for practice, banging a guy for practice, etc. If she has zero attraction towards you and any reservation about it at all, the odds are she wouldn't cross that bridge. In this very hypothetical situation that I don't ever see happening anyways, I imagine most girls would stop themselves before things got too emotional or too physical. It don't see it stopping most guys, though. the other person might suspect it over time, but most people are not that disgracious about such things to admit to it, whether it be getting experience for the inexperienced guy or getting validation or settling or a rebound so as not to be lonely for a woman. It does sound tacky when you say it aloud but many people use others. Lots of people end up in relationships to fill the time in their life but really have no intention of going anywhere serious with the other person. Lots of people can have sex with someone else and not give 2 shyts about them come sun up the next day. Just because its getting your rocks off does not make it anymore distinguished than locust's plan, as long as he treats the girl with respect and does not deceive her into thinking this is going to be something great. I am not sure exactly what he wants from this woman. When people use the word 'dating' these days I see it gets used for everything from random one night hookups to spending time getting to know someone new to being in a longterm relationship. Obviously the longer the time spent with the other party the worse it is to lead them on.
Author Locust Posted March 3, 2013 Author Posted March 3, 2013 I'm just doing it for experience. I hear a lot of women will refuse to date a guy because he never had any previous dated experience. So I ether do what I was planning to do or I just hire a girl to date me, and how her show me a few things. One way or ther other I need some experience if I want to have a normal love life and not wonder for the rest of my life and get rejected because I never dated a girl before.
Necris Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 Guys who should so do this are the ones who are Shy and Handsome. Not Ugly If you are already not too shy to approach women (OP's plan requires him to approach), and handsome why are you going after women who are unattractive to you? That doesn't make any sense. OP's plan besides trying to attempt to use a girl for his ego is lacking logic.
GoodOnPaper Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 Please do not. Us women dont like being settled for. Let her find someone who is attracted to her Surely, this doesn't apply at date 1, does it? Are players who attract a lot of women really that attracted to all the women they have ONSs and FWBs with? Yet, there is far less complaining about that than about guys who struggle and are trying to obtain just a small fraction of that level of experience. People need to quit giving guys who struggle conflicting advice. Do they lower their standards and play the numbers game OR don't try to date anyone unless they are pretty sure they are going to fall in love? It doesn't work both ways.
PhillyDude Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 Yeah we do. At least the smart ones. Hard to imagine some women have brains? Look, the guy needs experience and that's the only way he is going to learn. So if he has to use someone then that's what he has to do The End
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