kiley22 Posted March 2, 2013 Posted March 2, 2013 My friend set up a dinner with me, her bf, her sis, and her bf's single friend. She didn't tell me it was a 'set up' but it became evident quickly. She knows me well - I'm glad she didn't tell me because I would have gone into it with nerves. Anyways, the guy cozied up to me and we had a fun night together. After dinner, we all went to a bar and had a couple of drinks on top of the many drinks we had at dinner. I got drunk (which these days I rarely ever do), and ended up going home with him. We just messed around. The next day I was hungover, sick, and just wanted to go home and was a little rude to him and acted uninterested (only because I felt like hurling). He dropped me off at my place and asked for my number before I got out of the car. He made it a point to call me so I had it as well - making a joke that he would call until I picked up. He hasn't contacted me at all and its now been 5 days. Obviously I shouldn't have gone home with him the first night and shouldn't have been rude to him the next day. Question is, did I blow it completely? He would have contacted me by now if he was interested right? I asked my friend and she didn't have any intel for me.
TaraMaiden Posted March 2, 2013 Posted March 2, 2013 I think you'd be ok making a move and calling him - don't fer krissakes, text! - and apologising for having been such a jerk-ess. You're not normally like that, it was most uncharacteristic of you, and how about you prove how nice you really are by going out for a bite to eat, together? Be daring. Make a move. Go for it. Face it, as things stand, you have nothing to lose....... 1
Author kiley22 Posted March 2, 2013 Author Posted March 2, 2013 Thanks @TaraMaiden. It's never worked out well when I'm the one doing the pursuing. If his no contact is his way of rejecting me, I just don't want to come off as desperate. Despite my rudeness, if he was into me, he would call to give it another shot...do his due diligence. I told him I wasn't feeling well repeatedly and after all...I was set up through one of his good guy friends. If he did call, I'd make up for being a jerk-ess and ask to go out but until then, I'm just going to leave it in his court. I mean, I already went home with him wayyyy too soon.
Eternal Sunshine Posted March 2, 2013 Posted March 2, 2013 Thanks @TaraMaiden. It's never worked out well when I'm the one doing the pursuing. If his no contact is his way of rejecting me, I just don't want to come off as desperate. Despite my rudeness, if he was into me, he would call to give it another shot...do his due diligence. I told him I wasn't feeling well repeatedly and after all...I was set up through one of his good guy friends. If he did call, I'd make up for being a jerk-ess and ask to go out but until then, I'm just going to leave it in his court. I mean, I already went home with him wayyyy too soon. Unfortunately, this is true.
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