Casablanca Posted March 1, 2013 Posted March 1, 2013 Julia and I worked together and started to get close, after a few months when I was confident that she liked me (very cautions as of working together) I asked her out and she said yes. We dated for a little over two months, nothing serious, we made out, nothing more, but took it really slow because we knew the risks. Also she wasn't sure if she was going to stay in town after the school year (we both teach) She figures out she won't stay in town and is going back home, so we agreed to end it and while neither of us wanted it, it was for the best. Fast forward to spring of last year (over a year since her and I went out), my gf at the time and I met Julia in Chicago, afterwards my gf tells me that she thinks Julia likes me. I just played dumb to it, my gf did not know we went out; since Julia and I didn't really have a label I didn't tell my gf. I just said she probably just payed more attention to me because she actually knew me and we were catching up, but those two got along. A few weeks ago and my friends gf who knows us both asks me if anything happened between Julia and I, and I explained the situation and the friend says she figured something had. I asked her today to clarify and she couldnt give any reasons to why she thought Julia and I went out, but she said she could just tell, that we were comfortable around each other when it was silent and that she just thinks it might be something women are really good at picking up. Ladies, thoughts? Is this something women are good at picking up? My friend Brian had no clue and he has been friends of both I and Julia for just as long.
curlygirl40 Posted March 1, 2013 Posted March 1, 2013 Women can oftentimes pick up on chemistry, so I guess that's the question. Do you think there's still chemistry between you two? Maybe since the relationship seemed a little 'unfinished' there is still some vibe between you two. People can usually pick up on that. I think women are more intuitive to these things. Past relationships, chemistry, vibe, attraction. We notice little things that men don't notice. How people look at each other, their body language, etc.
Toddbt12y1 Posted March 1, 2013 Posted March 1, 2013 Women are crazy; they ought to be feared...and yes, yes they can sense these things. Like a giant emotion-sensing beacon!
Author Casablanca Posted March 1, 2013 Author Posted March 1, 2013 Women can oftentimes pick up on chemistry, so I guess that's the question. Do you think there's still chemistry between you two? Maybe since the relationship seemed a little 'unfinished' there is still some vibe between you two. People can usually pick up on that. I think women are more intuitive to these things. Past relationships, chemistry, vibe, attraction. We notice little things that men don't notice. How people look at each other, their body language, etc. I think so at first, it was a little awkward at first, but after a couple weeks, at least for me I was fine, but both ladies who noticed that didn't see us interact much until after that awkward couple weeks...heck Brian saw us like the weekend after and it was definitely awkward and he didn't pick it up! I'd say we still have chemistry, we get along very well and play of each other very well too; I guess since neither of us know how or if it would have ended perhaps that has changed how we act. I just think it is funny that two women picked up on that, one of which met her once while a few guys in the group never picked up on it.
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