Ladybeau Posted March 1, 2013 Posted March 1, 2013 Hi Guys. I came out of a relationship at the beginning of last year (Feb 2012) where my partner (of 4 years) moved out, left me, and never spoke to me again. (Yeah, what an *******.) He moved to Belfast and i have not seen or heard from him since. It took me quite a while to move on from that obviously. And then right before Christmas, i met another man. The relationship was great but i always felt like i was missing something.. and i'm really not sure what - so that ended pretty quickly when he started telling me he loved me and i couldnt say it back. A few weeks ago, i met another man but he keeps telling me that i don't really seem to be too ''into'' the relationship (not making the effort,etc) and so he ended it. I feel like i am completely broken now! What is wrong with me? x
Toddbt12y1 Posted March 1, 2013 Posted March 1, 2013 You are not over your ex. Not confident in carrying forward. You have reached a point where you have to start forcing yourself...unfortunately it happens.
Mack05 Posted March 1, 2013 Posted March 1, 2013 I have loved two women in my life. The one thing I would notice with the relationships straight after those relationships, was that something didn't feel the same with my new partner(s). They didn't smell the same, the didn't cuddle the same, they didn't kiss the same. Don't get my wrong I wanted it to work, but it just didn't feel 'right' or natural. I think you need to avoid all relationships until you have to to terms with what happened to you. Until you are happy inside, really happy in your life, it is completely pointless entering into a new relationship. This is what you need to work towards. Coming up with a strategy. Exercise plan, self help books, maybe change of job, new location. It's really up to you to find a way if being happy again. Finding a way to believe in yourself. Once you do this the next you guy you meet and have a connection with, I bet it feels 'right'.. 3
destroyed4sho Posted March 1, 2013 Posted March 1, 2013 You may need a break to rejuvenate yourself and start desiring people. Maybe 4-6months.
Author Ladybeau Posted March 1, 2013 Author Posted March 1, 2013 That perfectly fits my life right now.
adelia Posted March 1, 2013 Posted March 1, 2013 In total agreement you need to be over the other person before you can give any other relationship a fair shake. that said its more than ok to keep things light and go test the waters and have fun but give yourself time to come to grips with the end of that relationship.
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