lioness Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 Originally posted by Guinevere04 He says he is commited enough to try and play nice for the long haul. I told him that I will give him the opportunity to try it to be like he was when we first met and put the crabby husband away. The counselor thinks this is fair, and if I don't want to live in turmoil, I don't have to. I know the reason I want to work it out because of our child and I know that's wrong. He wants to work it out because he loves me. But I hoping that if he truly starts being nice again, I hope I will feel like I used to. Miracles can happen I guess. She has mentioned us possibly separating, but she really leaves that stuff to us. A couple of things... play nice - his words or yours? If his words... why would he be playing at being nice? The reason YOU want to work it out, for the child... but you know that's wrong. Knowing this, you are already starting off on the wrong foot. Is your hubby aware that you are only wanting to try to work it out for the child? How does he feel about that? Last - I know it's been a while since this original post... how are things lately? Is the counseling helping?
L.Carrie Posted September 16, 2004 Posted September 16, 2004 Hi Guinenvere I have spent a couple of really difficult couple of days, I just wanted to see how you were doing with your husband. I hope things are getting better. I posted something on my thread "Does seperation mean it's over, loneliness takes over" if you could please read it. Mainly becasue we are going through similar problems, only reversed and maybe if you read it you could give me your advice. I hope all is well, with you. I am still praying...... Lesly
Scott S Posted September 17, 2004 Posted September 17, 2004 Originally posted by Guinevere04 We have counseling tonight and I think I am going to ask for a separation. I don't know exactly what we will do because I don't feel right about either one of us leaving the house. How did the counseling session go? Any thoughts you care to share?
L.Carrie Posted September 23, 2004 Posted September 23, 2004 A bit worried...you haven't posted in quite some time.....hope all is well. Lesly
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