denxnis Posted February 28, 2013 Posted February 28, 2013 Which do you prefer? A guy who approaches you, says what's on his mind and asks you out. OR A guy who tries to strike up a conversation only to ask you out afterwards? I ask because I don't like to play games or bull**** people. If I see something I like I go for it. If someone asks for my opinion I don't "cupcake" my response, I tell it how it is.
2sure Posted February 28, 2013 Posted February 28, 2013 I prefer conversation first. I already understand why he has approached me, I'd like to form an opinion of him before giving him my answer.
Silly_Girl Posted February 28, 2013 Posted February 28, 2013 If he's a complete stranger I'd prefer some interaction first. If he's known to me I'd rather just be asked.
Author denxnis Posted February 28, 2013 Author Posted February 28, 2013 I'm not surprised by the answers but I personally don't see anything wrong with, "Hey I'd like to get to know you, can we talk over coffee sometime?" Let's be honest, when some stranger approaches a girl she already knows what's on his mind, why not cut the small talk and be straight forward?
2sure Posted March 1, 2013 Posted March 1, 2013 I would not be inclined to arrange a meeting with anyone without some glimpse into their conversational style, body language, etc. on another note, after reading about the difficulties so many men have in approaching and meeting women for dates... Ive decided to try to be more open to the cold approach. I'm way older than most of you, but I've been approached often and admit that although I'm polite, I've never been attracted to that . But you guys are admirable , putting it out there...No matter your age. So, I'm going to consider it. I was recently approached while shopping by a guy that seemed really nice and attractive...and I shut him down, then had second thoughts. So...I might try.
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