KawaiiKoneko Posted September 3, 2004 Posted September 3, 2004 Well I have a question about a little problem I have been having. Well, i started working at my job about 3 years ago, and i developed this huge crush on one of my co-workers that is about 18 years older than me, (i am in my early 20's). Well he and i just hit it off. we both love the same things, we get along well, have around the same personalities,but there is just one problem. he is MARRIED! yes he is.... and he is happily married from what i see....that is my problem. i like this guy sooo much, but i would NEVER EVER do anything with a married man. ever... so my question is, how do i get over this man. i mean its a problem because i have to see him every day. i work with him. and he likes to talk to me, i mean i think he knows that i have a crush on him, but of course he doesnt say anything about it. everyone i know says that if he wasnt married he and i would be married and probably have like 5 children or something....that's how compatible we are! it just really really sucks because i dont know how to stop myself from thinking about him all the time, or talking to him. i just like to be around him, but i cant because he is MARRIED! AARGH! can someone give me some advice to help out??!!
moimeme Posted September 4, 2004 Posted September 4, 2004 Find new friends, a new hobby, a new club, something new and *real* interesting to occupy your time and your thoughts. When you start to think about him, practice 'thought-stopping' - actually tell yourself 'STOP' and then think of anything else. You could have a list of other things to think about ready so that you can just jump to one of the things on your list.
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