purplereigncb Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Yesterday I lashed out at my ex after discovering she had basically dumped me because she found someone new. Now the thing is that she was a cheat(one time as far as I know), so naturally my mind believes this relationship was brewing for a while. Am I angry that I don't know more? Am i angry that I gave her another chance? Am I angry that I knew she was a needy person and that this whole " I need to be single" crap she lead me to believe was not true. I feel horrible for being angry, it's really not my style. I wish I discovered LS when she cheated. I would have saved both of us both the eventual demise. How do I move past the anger?
iouaname Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 I think it's absolutely normal - but it fades over time. There was no deceit or manipulation or cheating involved in my breakup and I was still very bitter and angry with my ex. You kind of just work through those things on your own.
newsbug Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Anger is perfectly normal. I feel a lot better when I'm angry with my ex than when I'm sad.
rn0408 Posted February 28, 2013 Posted February 28, 2013 I remember one girl back in high school cheated on me and I cut her off. I paid her back by taking her best friend to a school dance and she was real upset. I would just kill her rep between people you both know. I'm ruthless. If I knew she cheated, I'd wait for a Holliday and break up with her to send a message probably in a text message and have the replacement ready.
Author purplereigncb Posted February 28, 2013 Author Posted February 28, 2013 I'm not like that. I don't wish her physical harm. Or wish to show her I can do better. I've never told her I could do better. I just said evil things because I expected more out of her. I still want her to have her head on straight, even after I'm out of the picture.
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