Ryan_B Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Last Wednesday my girlfriend (my first aswell) left me after a 7 month relationship. I love her so much still and keep thinking of all the good times we had. We were even on holiday together the week before. I'm still really heartbroken about it, but I know there is no chance of the two of us getting back together as she said she doesn't love me anymore. She said she loves me still as a person and has since told my friend she miss me a lot, and feels guilty, but she loves me as a person, not a lover and just wants a ''special'' friendship instead. I'd love to be able to be friends, but right now, with my love and feelings for her it'd be impossible, maybe in the future though. I am considering, however, joining a dating site (I met her on one). I'd just look to be friends with people, someone new to share times with, less time thinking of my ex etc. will it help me move on a bit quicker? We could go out together for days etc, and get to know each other, then who knows? A month or so down the line, I may get feelings for her and see what happens? I know it seems a bit of a rebound, but now I'm single but just moping around, I'm not moving on, I need to move on and will this be a way of doing so? Thank you for any help
A1A Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Give it time. It is still fresh and it is normal to feel confused and hurt. Don't rush to find someone else. If you do, that's great! but don't push it. When your heart has been broken, looking for a quick cure is like putting a band aid on a knife stab. I know how you feel... My pain is still there every day and I long to feel better but I am giving it time and trying to look for help and support from others who care and understand... this is why we came to this website! Good luck and be strong. You will get better every day.
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