billybob223 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 ok me and this girl are interested in each other but its just one of those things you know you dont want a relationship with that person but i like her and would not mind having sex with her at all i have already told her im interested in her but im not looking for nothing serious so do i ignore her if she is not going to have sex without being in a relationship and move on or do i just continue treating her like a freind and let her come to me and make the moves and decide if she wants to or not?
kimberlydoll Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 ok me and this girl are interested in each other but its just one of those things you know you dont want a relationship with that person but i like her and would not mind having sex with her at all i have already told her im interested in her but im not looking for nothing serious so do i ignore her if she is not going to have sex without being in a relationship and move on or do i just continue treating her like a freind and let her come to me and make the moves and decide if she wants to or not? So basically you like her enough to have sex with her but not enough for a relationship? If you want to make physical moves on her go for it, but only when you tell her FIRST you dont want anything serious. If shes okay with that (or stupid and thinks youll change your mind) she will go ahead. If thats something she doesnt want, she wont. I dont think theres anything wrong with having sex without a relationship though I personally dont do it. What I do have a problem with is people manipulating others and not being truthful just so they can get some sex. 1
curlygirl40 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 ok me and this girl are interested in each other but its just one of those things you know you dont want a relationship with that person but i like her and would not mind having sex with her at all i have already told her im interested in her but im not looking for nothing serious so do i ignore her if she is not going to have sex without being in a relationship and move on or do i just continue treating her like a freind and let her come to me and make the moves and decide if she wants to or not? My real advice is to move on and leave her alone if you don't see yourself in a relationship with her. But what I will say is this. If you're completely and totally honest with her and she decides that she also doesn't want a relationship but would be down for some fun, then as long as you're both on the same page then go ahead. But yes, if she will not have sex with you without being in a relationship with you, then leave her be. Don't string her along that's mean. And girls, THIS is the reason why when men say 'I don't want a relationship' you need to listen.
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