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I'd love some opinions on how I should read this situation. I've been visiting a Starbucks on my way to work for a couple months now (yes, I know this has been posted a few times here with similar situations).

 

I'm fairly shy/quiet until I get to know somebody a little bit, so asking somebody out is NOT my area of expertise, and like some, I get nervous, etc.

I've had small talk with the barista the last few weeks and decided to grow the balls to ask her out. The problem being, I trapped myself into a time. I suggested going out to an event on Sunday at 1 (because thats when the event is).

 

She didn't hesitate much when asking what time it was and said she was working on Sunday but maybe next time. Here is where I screwed up even more: I quietly said yep, next time have a good rest of your day and walked away. I walked out pretty quickly though, and probably looked like an ass.

 

I went back in today and quickly said how are you doing, etc. exchanged a quick line. But it was awkward (mostly because her co-workers were all standing there not busy).

 

Adding to that, I ONLY visit there to see her, it's out of my way and certainly far more expensive to drink coffee there than out of my espresso machine at home.

 

Thus:

 

1. How should I read the situation?

2. What if anything should I do now?

3. Any comments/suggestions/etc. will be appreciated.

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