scr85 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 (edited) I'd love some opinions on how I should read this situation. I've been visiting a Starbucks on my way to work for a couple months now (yes, I know this has been posted a few times here with similar situations). I'm fairly shy/quiet until I get to know somebody a little bit, so asking somebody out is NOT my area of expertise, and like some, I get nervous, etc. I've had small talk with the barista the last few weeks and decided to grow the balls to ask her out. The problem being, I trapped myself into a time. I suggested going out to an event on Sunday at 1 (because thats when the event is). She didn't hesitate much when asking what time it was and said she was working on Sunday but maybe next time. Here is where I screwed up even more: I quietly said yep, next time have a good rest of your day and walked away. I walked out pretty quickly though, and probably looked like an ass. I went back in today and quickly said how are you doing, etc. exchanged a quick line. But it was awkward (mostly because her co-workers were all standing there not busy). Adding to that, I ONLY visit there to see her, it's out of my way and certainly far more expensive to drink coffee there than out of my espresso machine at home. Thus: 1. How should I read the situation? 2. What if anything should I do now? 3. Any comments/suggestions/etc. will be appreciated. Edited February 27, 2013 by scr85
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