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I've posted about this before on this site, however the problem is still continuing.

 

Every time I text my bf while we're both at work he just completely ignores me, yet he's on facebook posting statuses, liking pictures, just doing whatever. He doesn't text me back for hours most of the time. He claims that he doesn't see my texts, he's usually on fb on his work computer.

 

It really bothers me that he can't take a little bit of time to answer me when I'm asking how his day is going. Its just so inconsiderate to me. He thinks its no big deal and just keeps saying he doesn't even know I texted him. What should I do about this? Is this a big deal or should I just let it go? Am I being petty about this?

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Send him messages on Facebook instead then see if he responds.

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If you're both "at work", why are you texting each other instead of doing your jobs?

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Send him messages on Facebook instead then see if he responds.

 

I really don't get on facebook that often and I don't feel that I should have to go out of my way to get on a website to get him to talk to me.

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I really don't get on facebook that often and I don't feel that I should have to go out of my way to get on a website to get him to talk to me.

 

It sounds like he feels the same way about texting.

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It sounds like he feels the same way about texting.

 

What about when he is the one to text me first and start a conversation? Why would he start a conversation then ignore me?

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What about when he is the one to text me first and start a conversation? Why would he start a conversation then ignore me?

 

That is rude, but at work you get busy. He may have started the conversation during a down time, and couldn't finish it because something came up at work.

 

It sounds like you need more attention from him. Just be honest about it. Tell him you're feeling neglected and he needs to step it up.

 

Also, understand that most men aren't big communicators. They can still feel very connected to a woman without being in contact all day.

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That is rude, but at work you get busy. He may have started the conversation during a down time, and couldn't finish it because something came up at work.

 

It sounds like you need more attention from him. Just be honest about it. Tell him you're feeling neglected and he needs to step it up.

 

Also, understand that most men aren't big communicators. They can still feel very connected to a woman without being in contact all day.

 

See, I would completely understand if you was busy with work. But he's not busy with work, he's busy with facebook. I wouldn't even think of complaining if he didn't text me back because he was working. Its like Facebook is the greatest thing in his life and he places its importance way above mine.

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