Nikw13 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Me and my girlfriend met thru a mutual friend and hit it of straight away and after 5 months talking texting we decided to meet on a night out nothing serious just casual drink with friends at a bar things went well and within another two weeks we were spending the night together and eventually made it official at my family's due (cousin engagement other cousin bday) things were still going great said shes never been happier never smiled so much and my feelings were getting deeper the first obstacle came when she had a family holiday for a week but that went really well aswell texting and calling all day saying she couldn't wait to get home and see me but when that came around the 2nd time I saw her as she was getting ready to leave things seemed to change she went quite and looked upset the next couple of times we were suppose to be meeting things went wrong lack of communication or phone broke things like that nothing serious but when we did all seemed well again and then all of of a sudden she went cold no calls no reply to text nothing knowing something was wrong I began to ask not realising I was becoming a pest so when I heard nothing I went to see her after work she seemed normall like nothing's happend me I was on tender hooks just wanting to no how she felt we spoke and she said she thinks things are moving too fast and would like to take the whole relationship tag out of it to me that seemed fine as it doesent change my feelings so went home thinking all is well the next day things were back to square one next thing is she said she needs time to think and needs space is this just opening the door to let her walk away at this point I'm giving her space what ever that means
calgary Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 it's strange she just stopped getting in touch, it's as though she met somebody else she quite liked.. I don't like that she wanted to take the 'relationship tag' off of it.. that to me basically means she can have fun with other guys and then if you say anything she can comeback with ' but we're not together' kind of thing ? but she still wants you around just in case it doesn't work out sort of thing ? I don't like this situation one bit man it seems like you're getting played.
Author Nikw13 Posted February 27, 2013 Author Posted February 27, 2013 it's strange she just stopped getting in touch, it's as though she met somebody else she quite liked.. I don't like that she wanted to take the 'relationship tag' off of it.. that to me basically means she can have fun with other guys and then if you say anything she can comeback with ' but we're not together' kind of thing ? but she still wants you around just in case it doesn't work out sort of thing ? I don't like this situation one bit man it seems like you're getting played. Thank you for your reply when she mentioned taking the tag of it I did say we need some ground rules ie I still want the commitment to each other and she agreed she doesn't want anyone else but she won't say she wants me either I've expressed my emotions to her about how I feel I can give her space but I don't want to be shut out but ATM she feels she can't talk about her feelings with me
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