Lillygoose Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 I have posted my story on here just over a week ago. My ex of 4.5 years broke up with me to be with another girl 10 years my age with a child, two weeks after the breakup they are now in a relationship. And now, its been 7 days since NC since he called me a cword and to stay out of his life. Did I mention how much he is a mummies boy? He works with his mum in the same office, she makes him lunch pretty much everyday, she gives him lifts to work in the morning and he sees up every weekend. So every day he pretty much sees his mum. I havent got that much of a problem but he is ny-on 25,c'mon let go a little bit? And about 4 weeks ago he got her to send me a rather nasty email. Which I stated on the previous post. Now this morning I got a text off his mum saying ''Hello how are you how's the job searching going, have you got a job yet? Hope you're okay? And I know she wouldn't of sent that without him asking her too. And yet he is too coward to just text me, he has to get his mother too. I wont text back, I think I have learnt not too on this website. NC STAYS. Including his mother. He just seems to want to know how I am doing... its annoying. more annoying seeing as his new girlfriend him and his mum work in the same office -.- Did I do right by not texting back. He wanted me out of his life. That's what i AM DOING!
calgary Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 yea she should understand you're upset.. they are probably all having a laugh because they're all working, acting patronizing asking if you've got a job yet. Just don't get in touch. He left you for somebody else.. who is sat right by his mum as she sent that text ? she's not being friendly really. just because she's older doesn't make her a fair or kind person. i'd ignore her text. he's not going to get back with you whilst he's with another girl and even if he did want you back would you even want him back now he's gone off with someone else ? you seem really down to earth it's a shame this happened to you. There's no need for them to be mean to you right now.
TaserTag Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 I definitely wouldn't respond to his mother's messages and I wouldn't even respond to him if he ever mans up and sends one to you himself. He's a cheater who talked about you behind your back with everyone and jerked you around. From your previous thread, it seems like he just dumped you out of your house and took most of your things. He's a cheating, selfish idiot, and I doubt that he's really happy with his new girl either, since she wasn't the only one he was chatting up. Don't give them any more of your attention to amuse themselves with. Let them find someone new to bother. I'm really sorry that this all happened to you and keeps happening but really, there are far better guys out there...
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