OVERYOURBULL Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 I date a girl who is 30 for 5.5 years our last 2 years have been nothing but pain and struggle in those last 2 years we have broken up various time mainly by due to the disrespect in our relationship. We talked to each other like trash and just felt like we didnt care anymore at least i did. So i broke up with her with every intension of never returning in october. The rest of the month including November, December, and middle of january she continued to email me since i had her blocked on my phone. I finally gave in and replied. She states she loves me still, in love with me, cant live with me but cant live without me, so many other bull**** lies. She told me she wanted to talk and fix it so unblock her off my phone and so i did. We talked a few times shared alot of cries. Never did we talk about our relationship statuses. Now fast forward a bit. Superbowl weekendi see her at a basketball game with another guy holding hands. Amazingly i had to sit behind them and made myselfgo through the pain of watching this with an intension of accepting what kind of girl she is and leave her alone forever.. Well that didnt work. After i told her i saw her there its like she tried harder to get me back but only as much as she could since she told me he wasnt her dude every damn i time i asked. I saw her a few times even laid with her in bed she kissed me a few times and vice versa. Now i found out its her dude and she is going crazy cause i told her i would take a picture of all the texts she sent me up till saturday( friday she was out with me and we went to have dinner and drjnks) and put them on his car. So now she is going crazy telling me i am trying to sabotage her relationship and freaked out.. I most likely wont do it but i am really mad at the fact that i had moved on and was doing better about my feelings and she was playing with my emotions the whole time and asking me to come home while she had another dude!
Author OVERYOURBULL Posted February 27, 2013 Author Posted February 27, 2013 So for the grammer errors and if i jump around alot in my story
pinkie Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Should Not. I think you should just block her again and move on. She is nothing but drama. Get away from her. This new guy will figure it out on his own eventually. I know it's easier to say 'be the bigger person' than actually being the bigger person, but she's scum and it really doesn't matter at the end of the day. She's not going to change her behavior. You could give him a heads up, but will he believe it? It could just make you look like the bitter ex... (which of course you are)... That being said, make her think you're going to tell him, but just cut her off. She'll be walking on egg shells for weeks.
Author OVERYOURBULL Posted February 27, 2013 Author Posted February 27, 2013 Im only bitter at the fact she continued to contact me for sooooo long telling me sooooo much bull**** knowing she had another dude which she should have just let me be and move on while she continued her new relationship. I am sure she would have continued this as long as i didnt find this out. Even up till last night she still had the nerve to tell me she is love with me, really? Wtf stop bull****. I ****in hate her
d0620 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Wait, so you block her from your phone and she emails you for 3 months asking to have you back. You always told her no and just hangs out with her as basically friends and now you want to sabotage a relationship with somebody who actually wants to be with her. Have it ever occurred to you that she wanted to be with you, but since you rejected her she had to move on. What do you think? Do you think she should be hanging around emailing you everyday and waiting for you to change your mind. Either you want her or you don't and if you don't you should leave her alone. If you do go and get her. Clearly, she still loves you but I don't fault her for moving on and having a back up plan.
Author OVERYOURBULL Posted February 27, 2013 Author Posted February 27, 2013 Look i am not mad she moved on. She is a gorgeous girl and knew she would not stay single for long. The fact that she emailed and emailed me until i broke down and replied telling me she wants me loves me wants to fix it. We hung out at her house she kissed me held me and more. The only thing that pisses me off is you have a guy and hid it for so long. I constantly asked her if he is her bf to leave me alone and she denied it and denied until i found out on my own. Dont you think knowing you have a dude and me her being so toxic you would just leave alone forever? Why would you just try and play me?
Author OVERYOURBULL Posted February 27, 2013 Author Posted February 27, 2013 She made it like she wants to fix us while she would be with someone else? What is it to fix? She should have just left me alone now i know all this bs i didnt care to know
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