read text's which is are quite disturbing

[jimbobarola]

Ok. Please dont judge me for going through my girlfriends phone but i did a few days ago and my hunch about things not being quite right were correct. My g/f who i will call mandy has a friend (brie) who now lives in usa denver. Brie has trying to get my girfriend over to the states for over half a year now. mandy told me about her frined wanting her to come over and i said it would be nice if we could both go over and have a nice holiday together. I mean Brie is married to an american(after 2 weeks of knowing him!!) so I was thinking we could have had a nice hol together with the four of us . Anyway brie sent my gf 350 quid through the post for xmas present(i know thats what i thought a hell of a lot of money ) and also a nice watch which she left the price tag on accidently which was 150 bucks so all in all a lot of money. I naturally asked why all that money which mandy said she didnt know why. Brie thenn sent a text which said it was for mandys family for xmas and herself and to call her a bit more. fair enough. how nice i thought! Anyway mandy left her phone on her text message the other day and i had to read it . the texts said tht she really wanted mady to come over and when could she. My g/f was saying she would love to and was seeing if she could get the time off work first. Bearing in mind i know nothing about this hol apart from the messages i read that night . no mention from the misus as yet. So i was a bit disgruntled as i have been kept in the dark so far thinking when is she going to tell me . I dont mind her going but to be honest after i said i would love to go way back i realise now i have been discounted from the situation . Anyway mandy left her phone at home one day and i checked up to see if she was making any more plans that i didnt know about. i went through the texts from brie to my misus and this is what i read and still dont know what to believe to this day. The first shocking one read thisAug 4th"well i think you could still come over for week. you could def make money here!100%. fun stuff to do in the sunshine, work for the afternoon and haed out in the evenings. i made $1600 this week!!"ps work:you just put some picks up with a description, prices, location etc and guys call for appointments. i work from a decent hotel mon - fri 11-9 and you can still pop out for lunch shopping in between."" wtf forgot to say she said also"im fine working making decent money. its easier to get clients here" soz also a text b4 tht one says im only working massage $200 an hour. So obviously she is a prozzy. ive had it out with the misus and she has admitted that her mate is . thing is i have said if she wants to go then she can but dont expect me to be around when she gets back. after. day after she is still trying to turn me around to letting her go . i dont know what to think from the text message that" you could def make money while you here" . does that sound like she has been thinking about it or discussing it with her frined brie. my misus says she hasnt but i find it hard to believe that with that kind of message she is not telling me the truth . please can someone help me

[dchin1985]

if that was my gf, i would get the hell out. She better come up with a good reason to convince me why i should stay... if she can think about this, she can sure think of something else down the road in the relationship