tory1012 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 So I recently met this guy online and we instantly clicked. We hung out nearly every day for the next week and a half. Skyped, txted etc.... I felt a little smothered I suppose and There were a couple instances where I gt grouchy and maybe got a little mad about things. I used to do this is my old relationship as it was unhealthy and I was constantly fighting with myself. He is barely talking to me after this happened I just want to know whether Its over or do i just need to patient? I don't understand how he can like me so much and then suddenly not? Please help.
Michelle83 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Did you apologize for getting grouchy and explain to him why you were?
RachR Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 For your grouchiness, maybe it's this: maybe you need to learn how to recognize it's time for you to disengage with him or whoever else you might spend a lot of time with and not overextend yourself or else you feel smothered (and you may be the one facilitating your own smothered feeling by not saying, "Well, I'm gonna go do this now, talk to you later.") Learn to do this and you might not get so grouchy.
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