cindyloo Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 How much of a role does physical attraction play (for guys)? if a guy moved on and was over a girl (mentally) but still attracted to her physically, would it be a risk to run into her? feelings might come back?
mortensorchid Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 I have wondered this myself. Sometimes I think it doesn't matter if you are a Victoria's Secret Angel or a troll or something in between. The only thing that most men care about is that ONE THING. Quite honestly, you could be a jug eared miget who could dance in a tea cup, and they would still do IT with you if you were willing. As to women that they actually want to be with after the fact? They want someone who will take care of them or make them the center of their universe. They don't deserve to be loved or to be happy if they have this attitude, and that's why they end up with trash rather than good women. I'm sounding more and more bitter as I get older, aren't I? 1
Soxfaninfl Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 I'm still find my ex-wife attractive, but I do not want to be with her. She burned me bad. Her looks would never entice me to be with her again after what she put me through. There are other attractive women in the world. 3
MrCastle Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Not for me. I've been burned by a few women who were models, despite their killer looks, I knew their personality was terrible and I was better off staying away from them. Once I'm done with you, I'm done. You could walk into class naked and masturbate on the desk in front of me. I wouldn't bat an eye. 2
CptObvious Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 How much of a role does physical attraction play (for guys)? if a guy moved on and was over a girl (mentally) but still attracted to her physically, would it be a risk to run into her? feelings might come back? physical attraction is everything. "do it do it do it do it do it just ****in do it see what happens do it **** it just do it" - Penis
TheGuard13 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Sexual attraction is more important than physical attraction. But it's pretty important.
MrCastle Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 physical attraction is everything. "do it do it do it do it do it just ****in do it see what happens do it **** it just do it" - Penis Lol my penis says that all the time. Albeit in a British accent. And no, I'm not British. 1
hudson701 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 I'm mentally over my ex but am still very attracted to her, she is very cute. If I spent time with her I could easily fall in love all over again. For that reason I go out of my way to avoid her. 1
Eddie Edirol Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Once youre done youre done. Physical attraction does not bring any feelings back if your guy knows he has had enough of you. He most likely didnt have any feelings at the end, and would never go there again. So if youre waiting on a guy to feel something for you again after he dumped you, its not going to happen. 3
Shardish Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 How much of a role does physical attraction play (for guys)? if a guy moved on and was over a girl (mentally) but still attracted to her physically, would it be a risk to run into her? feelings might come back? I really liked a girl at my work place for around two years and she liked me too, it was obvious to everyone at work, but nothing ever happened because she had a boyfriend (girls who aren't single are off limits to me). She eventually became a singleton and being young just wanted to have fun and that was that. She wanted me to wait around for her, but I am not a doormat and decided to cut off all lines of communication with her and move on. I saw her last summer and while I no longer want anything to do with her I cannot deny to finding her incredibly attractive, she still arouses me in the same way she did when I liked her.
Author cindyloo Posted February 27, 2013 Author Posted February 27, 2013 I really liked a girl at my work place for around two years and she liked me too, it was obvious to everyone at work, but nothing ever happened because she had a boyfriend (girls who aren't single are off limits to me). She eventually became a singleton and being young just wanted to have fun and that was that. She wanted me to wait around for her, but I am not a doormat and decided to cut off all lines of communication with her and move on. I saw her last summer and while I no longer want anything to do with her I cannot deny to finding her incredibly attractive, she still arouses me in the same way she did when I liked her. Thanks for this answer... I'm in a similar situation and so this was kind of what i was wondering
Author cindyloo Posted February 27, 2013 Author Posted February 27, 2013 Sexual attraction is more important than physical attraction. But it's pretty important. Hmm.. I've always considered physical attraction to be the same thing as sexual attraction. Although I guess you can be more sexually attracted to someone even if they aren't your ideal type. Is that what you mean?
Lonely Ronin Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Hmm.. I've always considered physical attraction to be the same thing as sexual attraction. Although I guess you can be more sexually attracted to someone even if they aren't your ideal type. Is that what you mean? O no, they are really really different. Physical attraction is kind of like a picture, an instant frozen in time. Sexual attraction is a lot stronger. It's how you walk, how you talk, your mannerisms, how you interact with me, etc. For example I find Fran Drescher, very Physically attractive, but not really sexually attractive at all. 3
lollipop29 Posted February 28, 2013 Posted February 28, 2013 O no, they are really really different. Physical attraction is kind of like a picture, an instant frozen in time. Sexual attraction is a lot stronger. It's how you walk, how you talk, your mannerisms, how you interact with me, etc. For example I find Fran Drescher, very Physically attractive, but not really sexually attractive at all. Ohhh... I see. Funny that I had not thought of that before.
Ninjainpajamas Posted February 28, 2013 Posted February 28, 2013 Physical appeal and sexual appeal can come in very different packages for men. Women often size up other women as "physically appealing" assuming they are what men would find sexually desirable. That's not always the case. There are women for me that I find physically attractive but not sexually stimulating, so I can recognize their "beauty" or appeal but I can't imagine or take much pleasure in the thought of sleeping with them. I am likely to become much more turned on by the sexual proponent with another woman who is not on paper more attractive than the other, but then again I'm a sexual guy, so for me that makes more sense in desires. I rely heavily on chemistry and psychological affect of a woman one me than just whether I find her simply attractive or not. If I were less sexual I'd imagine I'd just be neutral or indifferent and judge women based on what i was into or what I find attractive. But psychological, emotional results in a much better physical and sexual experience for me personally...so finding someone who is physically attractive, turns me on and clicks with me sexually and is on the same way psychological wave-length as I am, is the big boom for me. Physical attraction I can give or take at times...it can be easily fleeting. But that's for me personally. The sexual chemistry/connection is much harder for me to avoid and I'd honestly avoid that person if I didn't want to engage in anything physical again...that's the best way for me to deal with it. 1
Weezy1973 Posted February 28, 2013 Posted February 28, 2013 Hmm.. I've always considered physical attraction to be the same thing as sexual attraction. Although I guess you can be more sexually attracted to someone even if they aren't your ideal type. Is that what you mean? As another poster said - these are entirely different things. I went on a few dates with a woman that was really physically attractive, but she just wasn't that intelligent and so I lost all sexual attraction to her. Unfortunately it doesn't seem to work the other way around, so if a woman I don't find physically attractive is extremely intelligent, I don't suddenly become sexually attracted to her. I kind of wished it did work that way. 2
2sure Posted February 28, 2013 Posted February 28, 2013 If a man gets burned, he can think his ex is completely hot & still be revolted by her. Nagging does that.
Eternal Sunshine Posted February 28, 2013 Posted February 28, 2013 In my experience, men with low sex drives tend to want women that look as physically perfect as possible, to want to have sex with them. 2
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