KansasChica Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 So, I hit it off with this guy I met several months ago. We've been out several times and I definitely felt chemistry with him. I think he was feeling it too... then it came out tonight that he knows my ex boyfriend- they played football together (and still do) and then he got weird. I didn't say much about him, just that we had dated 2 years ago. I didn't bad-mouth him at all (even though he deserved it). We usually have a good night kiss and this new guy just kissed me on the cheek. He just seemed off. It really sucks, because this ex is a total part of my past. Do you think I've ruined my chances?
ja123 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 No, you haven't ruined your chances. You handled it well by not bad-mouthing your ex or getting into details. The guy, however, may have different feelings about dating someone who's the ex of a man in his social circle, and that is his decision. You'll find out if he asks you out again.
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