WantanS4 Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 In the most sadistic tone humanly possible.... I hope that s.ack of s.hit lives the rest of his life suffering. I hope he contracts something one day and his piece rots the hell off..... and i hope he tastes his own blood within the next week!!!! Yes I'M ANGRY!
WantanS4 Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 I am absolutely baffled how people can be so selfish and inconsiderate............. simply perplexed.
kerrie71 Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 Good Lord! Kate! I'm so sorry that that happened to you. What a pig. Unbelievable! I couldn't help but feel, though, that this might give you some much-needed closure. You'll never wonder again if you are doing the right thing by cutting him out of your life. It's all very absolute now, isn't it? You can still find me on enotalone. I'm Sophie75. Anything that you need! I'm so sorry! xoxox - Kerrie
Cade Posted September 14, 2004 Posted September 14, 2004 Kate, I cannot tell you how sorry I am that this has happenned to you. I have been doing some digging myself and I have just found out that one month after I moved out as she needed "time", she was with someone else while she was on vacation. This is 10 months after the marriage, 6 yrs into the relationship. Now as I think back on alot of suspicions I had about her, I would not doubt if they were true as well but you know what?.. I will no longer waste anymore of my thoughts and feelings on her. I will just assume they are true and that is that. This has actually done me a favor, like it should you, to give you strength knowing full well that you are better off without your old partner and that you have made the right decision. It is definitely their loss cause it seems that in this day and age not many people respect honesty, loyalty and the strength to work through life's problems. She is the type who needs a partner or fling at all times because of her low self-esteem issues and it is for that reason she will never ever "find herself". I have dated here and there in the last yr, (besides the short-lived reconciliation with her which started 12 weeks ago for 6 weeks), but have come to the realization that I am just not ready and I am fine with that. There is nothing wrong with being single at all. I need to figure myself out now. I have come to the realization that I am fine but it is the people that I tend to pick as a partner that is my weakness. I seem to pick woman who are down and out, I swoop in, pick them up, get them on their feet, and then in the end it is all unappreciated and I am tossed away. I need to stick to my gene pool and pick a stable person with no issues, who has direction, a job or education, someone more on my level so I am not babysitting but instead participating in an "equal" relationship. I know this will probably be very awkward for me cause I am like you, a giver, expecting nothing in return as I get pleasure out of helping others. "Nice guys finish last", "no one likes a push over", guess this is true but than again there are some women out there which would appreciate those qualities in a man as there are alot of a holes out there as well. We all, on this forum, we need to meet people like ourselves. It seems as if all of the good people are on here, the people we are seeking and deserve to be with. ....We should maybe set up a dating section on here for members??? That would be funny!! Anyway Kate, sorry, and at least you know now that it is his loss and one day he will be hurting as much or more than you are as he runs from woman to woman realizing that you were the best thing that has ever happenned to him. Hopefully by then you are strong enough to tell him to kiss your a$$ when he shows up at your door like I should have done to my ex 6 weeks ago. Someone here stated that for some unknown reason, they seem to show up again when you are just about over them, that is exactly what hapenned to me, but I was not quite objective or strong enough to handle the situation when it presented itself. I will never let myself get into that type of situation with her again until I can trust myself. For now, no contact is working and we speak during email only when we need to discuss my daughter. I will now get off of my soapbox and let others jump in here. Hang in there Kate, we are all here for you baby!!! Cade. To the world you may be just one person, but to one person you may be the world
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