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Guys have you ever experienced a woman answering the phone like this?

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ltjg45 Established Member

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If I got the voicemail I would have just hung up the phone and waited for her to return my call

 

I don't get you.

 

I really don't.

 

The female has clearly shown interest in you since:

1. She told you that she will call you back.

2. She texts you telling you her new number.

 

Despite this, you knocked her down the dating ladder only because she didn't do what you assume her to do in each situation.

 

I really do need to date. Some of these women deserve better than this. I wonder if she even has an idea as to how nutty you really are.

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amolya Member

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Oh for the love of god, PLEASE stop trying to date, phillydude, no woman deserves to have to deal with your crazy lunatic attitude.

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Feelin Frisky Established Member

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Then why not let the voicemail get the call???????????????????

 

You're assuming too much. Your call may have been extremely untimely for her and she may not have had a chance to think it out. She doesn't live your reality, she lives hers. If you think like you do and can't give the benefit of the doubt, you are going to be on the crap end of the stick.

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baRx Established Member

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my god, i actually read every single post in this thread.

most entertaining piece of work i've ever seen. i honestly can't wait for more. this is incredible material.

 

please, please tell me how you do it, PD. i would LOVE to be just like you on my next dating adventure!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

just kidding.

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KraftDinner Established Member

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Have you ever considered the fact that maybe SHE WAS BUSY?!!!!!

 

She even said that she is going to call you back, for crying out loud.....

 

I'm starting to think you aren't capable of dating.....

 

Nope...not acceptable excuse. Her behaviour was incredibly rude. If she's that busy she should just let it go to vm.

 

Also, how hard is it to say, "hey, how are you? Listen, can I call you back later?"

MidwestUSA Established Member

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It really must just be the women in that part of the country. Here we make contact, I come to your place with a large order of cheese fries, we neck and kiss, then I walk on your back. Not sure why these women are so far out in left field with their silly questions and such. Gotta go, late for my pedi!

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kimberlydoll Established Member

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I think its rude that she immediately said that instead of "Hello" but not that she asked to call you back. I do that sometimes because its easier than letting it go to voicemail and then having to listen to the voicemail. I do think you are overreacting though. If she doesnt display any other rude behaviors by this, let it go. I will agree that its not a promising sign however in terms of the way she acts/behaves but if its the only thing she does that seems rude its not a big deal. Nobody is perfect

Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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Sometimes I think that PhillyDude and GoldPile might be related.

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Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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LOL! Our poor PD can't even figure out how basic communication works.

 

Or else he's pulling our collective leg ...

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velvetunderground Established Member

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I read the first page and then came to the last and I haven't read any other posts by this guy but this has got to be the most ridiculous reason to not date someone I've ever heard. If she does this every time you call, it's another matter.

 

I agree it wasn't the nicest way for her to say it. But I also agree that she was probably right in the middle of something and didn't want to make you go to voicemail. What's the big frigging deal?

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runningfar Established Member

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No you know what, you're right. "Next" her, and the next, and the next, and the next. Until the absolutely perfect response in every situation ever by your standards shows up. Keep looking.

 

Guys, what if he keeps one and she gets the... Prize. Do you want that on your hands?

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ChatroomHero Established Member

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I kind of agree with Philly on this. It was rude, I would be turned off and not likely to call her again.

 

I am as busy as anyone I know but I would not answer the phone like that to someone I had any respect for. My ex had done similar things to me from time to time when I called and I was ok with it at the time, but over time I did notice if she was "really busy" doing something with me and her phone rang or someone texted her she would always take the call or text back so in retrospect I think it was downright rude to me.

 

Where I probably differ from Philly is if she called me back I would be over it and not really care. If she didn't call back I wouldn't spend any more time on her.

LexiB Established Member

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What if she realizes her greeting was less than graceful (which it was if that's literally ALL she said) and apologizes/explains when she calls you back. What then?

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Lillygoose Member

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I cannot believe this thread... I actually thought it was a joke to begin with...

 

:confused::confused:

 

ARE YOU KIDDING ME?

 

It was polite or her to even answer, as SHE WAS BUSY.

 

Doesn't take a fool to see that!!

 

Also, the way you speak of women ' i will eliminate that one '

 

Your attitude needs to change! pronto.

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dasein Established Member

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LOL, ignore the apologists and next anyone who has these types of manners if they don't correct their mistake, male of female doesn't matter. If they call back within 10 minutes with an apology and explanation, give them a hard time, "Didn't the phone manners lady every come around to your school??" :laugh:

 

If they do this type of thing, 99/100 they will have other obnoxious, rude habits. And LOL at all the "she was busy" apologia. If she was busy, she should have let the call go to VM. Done.

Shardish Established Member

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Did she ever call you back OP?

 

Hopefully not. The guy is clearly a few sandwiches short of a picnic.

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ShannonMI Established Member

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Just called this girl and she answers the phone like this instead of saying "hello how are you?

 

"CAN I CALL YOU LATER?

 

 

I was like.....HUH?? I didn't answer the question right away because i was kind of shocked at how she answered the phone. Why not just let the voicemail get it? I was calling to ask her out but that weird way she answered the phone kind of turned me off. How bout a f*cking HEY HOW ARE U?

 

NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Hahahahahahahaha

sillyanswer Established Member

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Why not just let the voicemail get it?

 

Maybe she doesn't have voicemail! Not everyone does... and I know a few people who deliberately turn it off even if it's available on their phone/plan/contract.

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nessaaa Established Member

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No overreacting would have me saying......NO and hanging up when she asked....Can I call you later?

 

 

Yeaaaaa i dont see the problem with her saying that unless she said it in a.mean tone as if she was annoyed.

Dont be a sucky pum.

 

My godfather answers the phone "yes"...he means no harm.

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AlexDP Established Member

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I will be on a date with someone else. I gave her the first opportunity of being on a date with me since she was the closet but now she is just about DONE. The only thing that maybe available is a "cuddle session" at my place

 

I love what you're doing here. Using this forum to write to yourself what you want to believe, but don't believe yet. Very smart. This way you should start to subconsciously believe that she'll be longing for a "cuddle session" with you? Right?

 

It's not that easy I'm afraid. You see, the vibe you're giving off is one of insecurity. And if you can't convince me, you sure as hell aren't going to convince yourself.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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You do realise you have to pay back credit cards... right?

 

Anyway how many women are you dating?! Is each thread about a different one?

 

 

I know that and since it's never a set amount on what I will spend, it's better to use credit and pay it off later

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Oh for the love of god, PLEASE stop trying to date, phillydude, no woman deserves to have to deal with your crazy lunatic attitude.

 

Amolya I think I want to get to know if that is your pic:D And I promise i will be a sweet guy

MidwestUSA Established Member

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I know that and since it's never a set amount on what I will spend, it's better to use credit and pay it off later

 

 

Makes sense in this ECONOMY!

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PhillyDude Established Member

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Did she ever call you back OP?

 

 

She sent a text around 1am telling me her new number.

 

I;m not talking to anyone tonight at all, just going to relax and watch sports

ShannonMI Established Member

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She sent a text around 1am telling me her new number.

 

I;m not talking to anyone tonight at all, just going to relax and watch sports

 

Do the girl a favor and don't call or text her back.

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