Guys have you ever experienced a woman answering the phone like this?

[Estate]

9:30pm I didn't think was a bad time

 

And that's you're problem dude!

 

Just because you're sitting at home being miserabel at 9.30pm, doesn't mean she is.

 

She could be:

• Working
  
• Doing homework
  
• With friends
  
• Drinking
  
• Going to a movie
  
• At Dinner
  
• In a rush
  
• On the subway going underground
  
• With some guy who isn't being as lame
  
• Just plain doesn't want to talk to you...
  

 

Just to list a few reasons....

 

WHY DO YOU CARE SO MUCH?????????????????

[PhillyDude]

Chances that if she hadn't picked up the phone at all, and had let it go to voicemail instead, there would still be a different but equal PD thread complaining about it? Anyone?

 

So this woman told me to give her a call later, so I did, and she let it go to voicemail!!! Who does that if they're interested??! NEXT!

 

 

 

If I got the voicemail I would have just hung up the phone and waited for her to return my call

[PhillyDude]

I really don't get how all these women are giving you phone numbers but it never goes further than that

 

You have been posting same stuff for years..

 

 

This girl works around the corner from me and I was calling to set up a date after work on friday but now she will have to wait until Mid-March

[PhillyDude]

And that's you're problem dude!

 

Just because you're sitting at home being miserabel at 9.30pm, doesn't mean she is.

 

She could be:

• Working
  
• Doing homework
  
• With friends
  
• Drinking
  
• Going to a movie
  
• At Dinner
  
• In a rush
  
• On the subway going underground
  
• With some guy who isn't being as lame
  
• Just plain doesn't want to talk to you...
  

 

Just to list a few reasons....

 

WHY DO YOU CARE SO MUCH?????????????????

 

 

 

I really don't since I can call the next person. If I call to ask you out and I can't get you u slide down and I call the next person

 

Kind of like what HR does when contacting someone for a job LOL

[mortensorchid]

I don't know your history with this person, but I have had some phone calls like that in the past. Someone says something weird or odd to you, that means they are not interested in you. Even for something strictly business. Don't be too offended, they are just rude and weird. You deserve better than that.

[PhillyDude]

You care enough to have started a thread just to rant about it.

 

 

I wanted to show some interest since we haven't been out yet since meeting for the 1st time last week. So I was going to tweak the budget a little bit and meet up for a after work dinner. But now after what happened tonight I can take that money and go to the supermarket so I can buy food to run me into next week.

[nessaaa]

I think your over reacting (as ushual)

[PhillyDude]

I think your over reacting (as ushual)

 

 

No overreacting would have me saying......NO and hanging up when she asked....Can I call you later?

[PhillyDude]

Another day, another crazy thread by phillydude.

 

Have you ever given maybe you aren't ready for dating a thought?

 

 

Lets take your logic and apply it to dating. Lets ASSUME there is some woman out there who makes it through the first few weeks of your endless analysis, nitpicking, she had to be PERFECT standard.

 

When the first bump in the road comes up, are you going to leave her? The first time she snaps at you because she had a bad day, are you going to leave her?

When she comes home with a puppy for you guys to take care of and its craps all over your house, are you going to leave her?

 

 

Dating requires a certain amount of flexibility. Its not going to be your way all the time, and waiting around for a perfect women in the perfect moment with the perfect scenario and she answers the phone just how you want her to, is only going to cause perpetual disappointment and loneliness on your part.

 

Lighten up man, maybe you'll get some where.

 

Conclusion; the troll wants attention.

 

 

 

I don't accept anyone snapping on me because they had a bad day. Not a friend, coworker, or relative and that would not be a pretty situation. If someone is having a bad day they better tell me why they are having a bad day because if they snap on me I will SNAP back. And when I snap I become really WILD

[todreaminblue]

Just called this girl and she answers the phone like this instead of saying "hello how are you?

 

"CAN I CALL YOU LATER?

 

 

I was like.....HUH?? I didn't answer the question right away because i was kind of shocked at how she answered the phone. Why not just let the voicemail get it? I was calling to ask her out but that weird way she answered the phone kind of turned me off. How bout a f*cking HEY HOW ARE U?

 

NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!

 

 

i have answered the phone this way, when a major happening is occurringi will say sorry this is a really bad time can i call you later ill call you in ten minutes or so ......it is where i am so stressed and have to mediate a situation...i cant multi task when there is an incident going on that needs my full attention....i am not a rude person and people who ring me know that........most people who call would hear the edge in my voice and go ok deb call me back when your ready....i would be grateful and say thanks i will talk to you soon..........

 

 

 

you dont know what was going on.....maybe she was short with you there could have been ample reasons why..dont sweat the small things or everything you do sweat joins together tol become larger than life..larger problem than what it should be........deb

[RachR]

Philly, have you been tested or checked out for any of the disorders on the autism spectrum? I am not poking fun or giving you a hard time, but you seem to misread normal social behaviour pretty consistently. You don't appear to understand how your fellow humans work very well.

 

Again, I am not making fun being or being nasty. It's just that your complaints are so bizarre and reactions to things that mean nothing are so over the top that I wonder if you might have some sort of psychological issue that prevents you from understanding how people work.

 

I don't think I've ever seen anyone with quite this much difficulty just getting off the starting block in their interactions with women.

 

Or he could have low self esteem or some other problem that makes him so easily react and take things so personally as slights against him, making him way oversensitive and likely to see everyone's actions should revolve around him. That's not being snarky myself.

[todreaminblue]

I don't accept anyone snapping on me because they had a bad day. Not a friend, coworker, or relative and that would not be a pretty situation. If someone is having a bad day they better tell me why they are having a bad day because if they snap on me I will SNAP back. And when I snap I become really WILD

 

 

 

to me ok

 

 

can i call you back later

is not a snap

a snap is when some one puts you down for asking a question

so she asked you a question you snapped

your problem not hers

we are all guilty of this everyone can snap

you do need to accept your own shortcomings...you yourself have an anger management problem if you get wild when asked a question or two

[CarrieT]

How many people do you know would accept someone SNAPPING on them for no reason at all?

 

This is the point, PD...

 

There probably was a reason, but you don't give people enough time or credit to learn what or why people react. You just complain about it...

[PhillyDude]

This is the point, PD...

 

There probably was a reason, but you don't give people enough time or credit to learn what or why people react. You just complain about it...

 

 

I never said she was UPSET on the phone, just that she answered the phone like a crazy person. Her tone wasn't unpleasant because if it was I would have said........"You know what, Fluck You and hung up and blocked her after that."

 

 

So even though she was short with me, her tone was somewhat pleasant but the way she answered just caught me off guard

[CptObvious]

phillydude is a combination of testosterone and everything that's annoying about women.

 

Do you even have friends?

[PhillyDude]

phillydude is a combination of testosterone and everything that's annoying about women.

 

Do you even have friends?

 

 

Everyone has friends

[PhillyDude]

The dumb b*tch just sent me a text telling what her new number.

 

 

I swear why do so many philly woman have to be on meds?? LOL

[Eclypse]

All trips and entertainment activities are purchased with my American Express.

 

So the plane ticket will be on the Amex

 

You do realise you have to pay back credit cards... right?

 

Anyway how many women are you dating?! Is each thread about a different one?

[Eclypse]

The dumb b*tch just sent me a text telling what her new number.

 

 

I swear why do so many philly woman have to be on meds?? LOL

 

Ok so what's wrong with someone telling you their new number? Are you sure you want to date?

[theLWord]

I love reading your threads and seeing what small things you are pissed about. You need to relax and stop being so negative. Not many ladies will like a crazy acting, less intelligent, sheldon type from the” big bang theory”.

 

You should make you tube videos about your dating experiences. Or just about the phone calls that lead the prospects to being marked off your v.i.p list.

[Snowman219]

Don't these games and analyses get tiring?

 

Don't you ever just want to relax and date?

 

Either she was in the middle of something and she will call you later, in which case she was probably very busy and wanted something more personal than a voicemail...

 

or she was irritated to even hear from you and was trying to shrug you off, in which case you didn't "next" her, she was done with you.

 

Either way, the outrage over anything must be exhausting!

 

Relax and date, two words that pair up like the big bad wolf and the easter bunny. DATEZILLA! RAWR!

[PhillyDude]

I love reading your threads and seeing what small things you are pissed about. You need to relax and stop being so negative. Not many ladies will like a crazy acting, less intelligent, sheldon type from the” big bang theory”.

 

You should make you tube videos about your dating experiences. Or just about the phone calls that lead the prospects to being marked off your v.i.p list.

 

 

Is that why I like Big Bang Theory so much? I am just like sheldon

[ChessPieceFace]

Have you ever considered the fact that maybe SHE WAS BUSY?!!!!!

 

She even said that she is going to call you back, for crying out loud.....

 

I'm starting to think you aren't capable of dating.....

 

Most womens' lives revolve around the men they want as mates. Many of them will never admit that, doesn't matter what they say. Fact is, for most women, if they potentially valued you as a mate, they would never say "CAN I CALL YOU LATER" in an upset tone. It's just about the clearest indication possible that this woman thinks nothing of you, thinks of you as an annoyance.

[anne1707]

I actually answered my phone just like that this morning. Did the person calling get mad? No. Did he think I was rude? No. He just accepted I was busy (which I was) and would call him back when I could so I could talk to him properly.

[PhillyDude]

Most womens' lives revolve around the men they want as mates. Many of them will never admit that, doesn't matter what they say. Fact is, for most women, if they potentially valued you as a mate, they would never say "CAN I CALL YOU LATER" in an upset tone. It's just about the clearest indication possible that this woman thinks nothing of you, thinks of you as an annoyance.

 

 

It wasn't in a UPSET TONE because if it was I would have told her "F*CK YOU and hung up. Even though it was in a pleasant tone i still didn't like how she answered the phone.

 

Then she texts me later at 1am to give me her new number like I'm supposed to jump up and down in excitement.

 

so like I said she has slid down the list and there will be no date no time soon