Guys have you ever experienced a woman answering the phone like this?

[PhillyDude]

Just called this girl and she answers the phone like this instead of saying "hello how are you?

 

"CAN I CALL YOU LATER?

 

 

I was like.....HUH?? I didn't answer the question right away because i was kind of shocked at how she answered the phone. Why not just let the voicemail get it? I was calling to ask her out but that weird way she answered the phone kind of turned me off. How bout a f*cking HEY HOW ARE U?

 

NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!

[kaylan]

I agree its rather rude. An interested woman would say hello, ask hows it going, and then ask if she can get back to you later. Dont really sweat it though dude.

[ltjg45]

Have you ever considered the fact that maybe SHE WAS BUSY?!!!!!

 

She even said that she is going to call you back, for crying out loud.....

 

I'm starting to think you aren't capable of dating.....

[PhillyDude]

I agree its rather rude. An interested woman would say hello, ask hows it going, and then ask if she can get back to you later. Dont really sweat it though dude.

 

 

She just slide further down the list.

 

 

And by the way if she does call later I will stare at the phone. If she doesn't call she is eliminated

[PhillyDude]

Have you ever considered the fact that maybe SHE WAS BUSY?!!!!!

 

She even said that she is going to call you back, for crying out loud.....

 

I'm starting to think you aren't capable of dating.....

 

 

Then why not let the voicemail get the call???????????????????

[ltjg45]

Then why not let the voicemail get the call???????????????????

 

And give you the vibe that she wasn't interested in talking to you even though she may very well be?

[runningfar]

Don't these games and analyses get tiring?

 

Don't you ever just want to relax and date?

 

Either she was in the middle of something and she will call you later, in which case she was probably very busy and wanted something more personal than a voicemail...

 

or she was irritated to even hear from you and was trying to shrug you off, in which case you didn't "next" her, she was done with you.

 

Either way, the outrage over anything must be exhausting!

[PhillyDude]

Well only a complete idiot would answer the phone later in my situation.

[PhillyDude]

Philly, have you been tested or checked out for any of the disorders on the autism spectrum? I am not poking fun or giving you a hard time, but you seem to misread normal social behaviour pretty consistently. You don't appear to understand how your fellow humans work very well.

 

Again, I am not making fun being or being nasty. It's just that your complaints are so bizarre and reactions to things that mean nothing are so over the top that I wonder if you might have some sort of psychological issue that prevents you from understanding how people work.

 

I don't think I've ever seen anyone with quite this much difficulty just getting off the starting block in their interactions with women.

 

 

So you saw nothing wrong with the way she answered the phone?

[PhillyDude]

Actually, what it sounds like is something happened right as she answered the phone... e.g. someone showed up at the door, another call came in, she dropped something, she was on the toilet, her hands were full, etc., etc., etc.

 

Seriously, I am not busting your chops. You just always seem to get really disproportionately incensed by what look, from the outside anyway, to be very benign "offenses". I don't know if you had some really bad experiences with women or a woman, or if you just don't understand human behaviour. Whatever the case, you keep shooting yourself in the foot. You can't seem to get past "go" with anyone.

 

 

Well i actually thought I was doing her a favor since she is not really on the level of the 3 girls so after that bizarre way she answered the phone she is close to being done. She is now in a lose/lose situation

 

If she doesn't call back tonight.......I won't call her until March 9th

 

If she does call back tonight............I won't call her back until March 9th

 

 

LMAO LOL

[aussietigerwolf]

It sounds like she was stressed and a million things were happening at once

[PhillyDude]

You're the one not getting the date. How is she losing? Do you honestly think she'll be sitting home by the phone waiting for you?

 

Do you ever actually connect, face to face, with any of the women you complain about here? It's almost as if you're just looking for reasons NOT to seal the deal. Are you worried these women won't want you when they do actually meet you? Is that why you keep undermining every single attempt at contact?

 

 

I will be on a date with someone else. I gave her the first opportunity of being on a date with me since she was the closet but now she is just about DONE. The only thing that maybe available is a "cuddle session" at my place

[Mme. Chaucer]

She just slide further down the list.

 

 

And by the way if she does call later I will stare at the phone. If she doesn't call she is eliminated

 

I love the way you're always threatening about how women are going to be off your list and eliminated! Like they're clamoring for your attention!

[PhillyDude]

Well, you've certainly shown her haven't you! No nookie for her from PD! I'm sure she'll be thinking all about you as she's "cuddling" with any of the number of other guys who will bless her with a phone call before March 9th.

 

C'mon man, you're 30, not 13. When are you going to get real with yourself? How many days has it been since you brought your last rant here only to get your ass handed to you by just about every female on this forum? Do you honestly not see that there's something amiss is the way you're handling your business?

 

Do any of these dates actually ever take place?

 

 

How bout I fly to CA so we can go out on a date?

[Janesays]

How bout I fly to CA so we can go out on a date?

 

 

Please. You couldn't afford the ticket.

[PhillyDude]

Please. You couldn't afford the ticket.

 

 

All entertainment expenses are put on my American express card

[ltjg45]

Please. You couldn't afford the ticket.

 

And even if you could, I'll be surprised if she even has a shred of interest in you.

[Estate]

Just called this girl and she answers the phone like this instead of saying "hello how are you?

 

"CAN I CALL YOU LATER?

 

 

I was like.....HUH?? I didn't answer the question right away because i was kind of shocked at how she answered the phone. Why not just let the voicemail get it? I was calling to ask her out but that weird way she answered the phone kind of turned me off. How bout a f*cking HEY HOW ARE U?

 

NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Same as the thing yesterday about a girl giving some snooty response online....

WHY DO YOU CARE? WHY ARE YOU LETTING IT RUIN YOUR DAY?

 

Yeah, it's a bit rude but you probably called at a bad time, who cares!

 

If you're really getting such bad reactions from women constantly though, maybe you need to rethink whatever you're doing.

[PhillyDude]

Tell you what, if you can scrape together enough for a ticket... I'll take YOU out.

 

I'm just not gonna talk to you on the phone.

 

 

All trips and entertainment activities are purchased with my American Express.

 

So the plane ticket will be on the Amex

[PhillyDude]

Same as the thing yesterday about a girl giving some snooty response online....

WHY DO YOU CARE? WHY ARE YOU LETTING IT RUIN YOUR DAY?

 

Yeah, it's a bit rude but you probably called at a bad time, who cares!

 

If you're really getting such bad reactions from women constantly though, maybe you need to rethink whatever you're doing.

 

 

9:30pm I didn't think was a bad time

[Soxfaninfl]

Just called this girl and she answers the phone like this instead of saying "hello how are you?

 

"CAN I CALL YOU LATER?

 

NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Yes it has happened to me.

[PhillyDude]

Ooookee dokee, you do that...

 

In the meantime, how bout you start working on not acting like an asshat every time you get a bite on the line?

 

 

I think I will stick to craigslist since it's less competiition

[kiss_andmakeup]

Chances that if she hadn't picked up the phone at all, and had let it go to voicemail instead, there would still be a different but equal PD thread complaining about it? Anyone?

 

So this woman told me to give her a call later, so I did, and she let it go to voicemail!!! Who does that if they're interested??! NEXT!

[Eternal Sunshine]

I really don't get how all these women are giving you phone numbers but it never goes further than that

 

You have been posting same stuff for years..

[kiss_andmakeup]

I really don't get how all these women are giving you phone numbers but it never goes further than that

 

You have been posting same stuff for years..

 

Well they always screw it up, obviously! Asking him if he drives and whether they can call him back and whatnot! Stupid women!