Not sure if we broke up....

[rogersm]

My girlfriend texted me the other day and said bye. I tried to get her to change her mind but she said she was done. About an hour later she texted me that she thought a break would be good for us. and that things might be different in 3 weeks when she gets home from spring break. We havnt talked for about 4 days now and she has been posting on twitter about how "it is hard to let go of the one you love" and how she needs to let go of me to focus on whats important. So off of that id say its over. But, she still hasnt changed our relationship on facebook to single. I really dont know what is going on. I dont want to text her til 3 weeks when our "break" is up. but i feel like shes delaying the inevitable and shes moving on while im still hoping we get back togethor.

[MushyPeas]

This seems like a very confusing situation, I really am sorry that you're going through such a confusing time.

 

She's given you no reason other than she needs to focus on what's important? I mean obviously there are things only you know but that's confusing if you take it at face value.

 

I would normally suggest not contacting her, but you seem to be in a state of limbo which is hugely unfair, if it's over then ok, but alteast you can build yourself back up and move on, but you're not being given the chance because you don't know. I don't know if i've read that correctly but there's lots of conflicting messages coming from her, she is done, she wants a break, 3 weeks, etc etc.

 

I don't know what other people think but I think you deserve to know where you stand, at the very least so you can then begin the healing process whether that's on your own or with her because this will no doubt be a knock to you either way

[rogersm]

edit...the origional reason for our breakup was that i didnt touch her like i wanted her. she tol me this a couple times but i never changed. but then later she talked about focusing on whats important and doing whats good for her