realtree Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 I am just curious to know people's opinions about taking a break for a while. And what is a good amount of time to spend apart?
thecrucible Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Maybe I'm old-fashioned but I don't believe in breaks. If it's over, then it's over as far as I'm concerned and I'm not going to wait in the wings for someone. I also get iffy seeing people who are "separated" on dating sites and wouldn't date anyone who is.
Casablanca Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 I'd be curious to who has had a break in their relationship and they got back together and that worked out...I don't see them ever working I initiated a break once, I had feelings for someone else and I was rejected, I didn't tell my gf at the time, so I told her things were kind of stale that I needed some space...we got back together for another month or so before I called it off. I knew it wasn't going to work, I tried to make myself like and love her, but I couldn't. I think a break means you don't really like the person anymore, you're going to try for something else, and if that fails, you have a fall back or at least sex or what have you
ScienceGal Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Taking a break = breaking up. Relationships have their low points, but all issues should be sorted out while still maintaining a commitment to one another. This can mean you, or your partner, need a day or two to sort through feelings. But, any extended amount of time without contact doesn't bode well for the relationship. If the issue is very serious, seek counseling, as an individual and as a couple.
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