aa112211 Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 (edited) so i know this girl. She knew I wanted to date her. She would flirt and offer to do things for me and text me all the time and want to come over. Also tell me I'm smart all the time. I catch her looking at me and she sits beside me and stares at me. So here is the thing. Appearantly she has guy she has been seeing since last summer. She never told me until like 2 days ago when she told me she was pregnant. I was a little mad. I know she didn't tell me that she was seeing someone because she knew I wouldn't pay anymore attention to her. So she let me believe she was single. I should add she was in a 3 year relationship then started seeing this guy like 6 months later. she won't tell me anything about the guy. She was lie why do you care you gonna do a background check. I was like no I just find it odd you will tell me your pregnant but end the convo right away when I ask anything about the guy. And she got real mad when I asked if she was getting married and was like no I'm just not getting married. I know she isn't over the ex. I told her there was no point to us staying friends, she said we could be close friends and still talk and hang out. because she likes talking to me and spending time with me. I told her she chose someone else to do that with instead of me. I wouldn't want to date her know that she is pregnant anyway. But should I even stay friends with her. I just feel like she only wants me around so if things go bad with this guy and she is left with a kid she can fall back on me. probably only till she can find someone else. I talk to someone she tells everything to and they told me she never told me because she didn't want things to change between us. Also he said that for some reason every decision she makes she worries about what I will think. which seems real weird to me that my opinion would matter that much to her Edited February 26, 2013 by aa112211 more details
Ami1uwant Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 She seems interested in you. Any reason you didnt ask her on a date 5 months ago and show interest in her?
Author aa112211 Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 (edited) She seems interested in you. Any reason you didnt ask her on a date 5 months ago and show interest in her? She knew I was interested. I asked her to hang out and she was like will you hang out as just friends. I said no. Then like a month later she wants to stop by my house. But does it matter now with the situation she is in. And as far as I know she is still with the guy. But there have been a few that wonder if she is alone and wondering if I would be fine with the situation. But I don't think that's it Edited February 26, 2013 by aa112211
phineas Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 So she's preggo with another man's kid & wanting to hang out with you? That's messed up. The only good thing I see out of this is you can't knock her up (if she really is pregnant).
Author aa112211 Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 (edited) seems to be getting bigger so i think is true. but yes she wanted to come watch a movie sometime and if this hadn't happened she was going to let me believe she was single. I suppose it could have been something not serious with this guy and she accidently got pregnant. But really what could she possibly expect me to do now and yes its odd she always had excuses why she couldn't hang out with me before now she says she want to hang out Edited February 26, 2013 by aa112211
boaaaar Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Just be a lousy friend and she'll eventually go away.
runningfar Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Nothing you have said suggests you were ever actually a friend to her; I'm not sure why you would start now. Not sure you have a right to complain about her being pregnant, though. I wouldn't call it a "situation" to her.
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