marklarsson Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 This thread is to share stories of times when you did Mistakes after the break up such as begging, texting but after a period of no contact the still came back to you?
TaraMaiden Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 'Came back to you'.... in what way? Permanently? Have you seen the second chances forum? It's pretty thin on the ground.... 'second chances do happen - but they're rare. Mostly when they 'come back to you' it's just to feed you breadcrumbs.....
AlexfromBoston Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 I have begged and pleaded with all of my exes immediately following a breakup. I have pushed them to the point where they just ignored me and that sometimes hurts most of all. Personally I'd rather have an ex telling me to f**k off then be ignored. I think begging and pleading is a natural occurrence amongst men when our hearts have been broken. We love to chase and fight for things...it's hardwired and ingrained in all of us. Actually with my two last exes I had a specific formula that worked pretty well. I begged and pleaded until they became fed up, went NC for a few weeks, sent an acceptance and thank you for all the good memories email. Each time we reconnected on a small date.
AlexfromBoston Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 It resulted in me screwing it up again. I am no good in relationships. So basically I earned a second chance only to screw things up.
thefooloftheyear Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 I have begged and pleaded with all of my exes immediately following a breakup. I have pushed them to the point where they just ignored me and that sometimes hurts most of all. Personally I'd rather have an ex telling me to f**k off then be ignored. I think begging and pleading is a natural occurrence amongst men when our hearts have been broken. We love to chase and fight for things...it's hardwired and ingrained in all of us. Actually with my two last exes I had a specific formula that worked pretty well. I begged and pleaded until they became fed up, went NC for a few weeks, sent an acceptance and thank you for all the good memories email. Each time we reconnected on a small date. No one likes to get their dick stomped in...but in a way I do see your point. If you KNOW its really over, then you HAVE NO OPTION but to move on. The thing that sucks about NC is that if there was any hope or if the breakup was because of certain circumstances, then you really dont know whats happening in their minds. And frankly, while it might happen, I think even those who reconcile dont come begging at your doorstep intears, begging for your forgiveness with hat in hand. Most ppl that I know that have reconciled usually did so from a little crack, then it just goes from there..... Good Luck to all the broken people. TFOY
Author marklarsson Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 'Came back to you'.... in what way? Permanently? Have you seen the second chances forum? It's pretty thin on the ground.... 'second chances do happen - but they're rare. Mostly when they 'come back to you' it's just to feed you breadcrumbs..... both temporarily and permanently
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