jcrew11 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 I was reading and had headphones in, he walked up to me, did a little wave and got my attention, as soon as I took out my headphones he asked if I was waiting for anyone. Boom! He is now my boyfriend. Wow, you're pretty easy, lol. Were you at a Starbucks? I actually have good luck meeting girls at coffee shops, its better than bars.
jcrew11 Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Is simply asking if I can talk with her good enough? Tell her "You have a great ass!" Actually, I was walking into the library with my friend who talks like Howard Stern; and he yells to me "that girl over there has a great ass!" - and we kept walking past her, but she turned around and saw us. Now, I saw the girl at least 5 more times at the library during the year, and she would always stare directly at me, but not in an angry way; I think she was actually intrigued, happy with the compliment, and wanted me to talk to her. But I was always too embarrased because (1) It wasn't me who said it, it was my friend, but (2) she thinks it was me who said it, LOL. And now she probably thought I was some sort of creepy sex fiend, who shouts Lewd things at women in the Library.
blueskyday Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Love the responses! I especially like the idea of mirroring the girl's activity, while sitting next to them. That should work well! I agree with the "don't approach cold" advice. I need a bit of time to warm up to someone. They need to be in my space for a while before approaching. The worst advance I ever had was when a guy walked by me and yelled, " Hey are you single?" I think we women want nonthreatening behavior, and when we don't know a guy we will assume his behavior is threatening until proven otherwise. Humor would be a good way to make a guy's behavior less threatening. Just walk by, smile and pretend to trip because you are staring at me...I'm goofy so that would work, too. I dont like guys who are obvious player types who are polished with lines. I prefer sincere attempts to get to know me...so shy is ok. No need to be perfect. Just try to connect and if shot down, keep your smile. Ths right girl will repond positively!
blueskyday Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 The funniest approach I ever had was when the guy came into a coffee shop where I was sitting. He thought I was the girl who he was supposed to meet there. He had only seen her on an online dating site. Thinking I was her, he walked over and touched me on the arm. When I said I wasn't her, we had a good laugh. I told him he didn't look anything like his profile pic, so I was "outta there!" Life is funny so have fun. You never know how you will meet people.
Estate Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 Love the responses! I especially like the idea of mirroring the girl's activity, while sitting next to them. Super creepy, why don't you just say Hi?????????????? Saying Hi on a cold approach is only weird if you just stand their blankly afterwards. Just say Hi and ask her a question or be a fun guy. It's simple.
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