richard9 Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 some revelations i had today, recently ive been really struggling with moving on, the whole NC thing does work but at the same time it throws up so many 'what if's', the hardest part i believe is wondering what our ex's are doing, and how (if) they feel for us. it is the unknown. tonight i past those 'what if's' by realising, i do not want to live in fear of the unknown anymore, i have so much still to live for and to offer. by self improvement, our bodies can become stronger, our minds can become sharper, and our souls (who we are) can show us that we are unique and special. that happy person who made our ex's interested in us is still there and waiting to be discovered again, give that person that you once were a chance, they are asking and hoping that you find them again. feed your body with fitness and let it become stronger, feed your mind with knowledge and let it become more learned, and stop fearing the unknown and free your soul. just my thoughts, apologies if it sounds stupid, just wanted to write something positive today :-) 3
Thunderchild Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 Richard - you are a Prince among men!! 1
Author richard9 Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 Richard - you are a Prince among men!! Thankyou from now on i will live by two words... NO FEAR!
BarbecueMan666 Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 Yeah not stupid at all, A little dramatic - But it's nice ^^. One thing I recently went through was a lot of self esteem issues. I had them before I met the ex, but when dating the ex they all went away (seemingly - or I just placed them under the rug for the time being) - and now single again, I felt them all spring back. Been going through the motions, working out, feeling better about myself as time goes on - Initially I felt pretty hopeless, didn't want anyone else and felt very rejected and rotten. Slowly learning who I am again, feeling more comfortable and confident too, they say time heals all wounds, and while the loss of a loved one, be it through rejection or what have you is definitely impaling, the main pain for me was learning of my insecurities again. I was a solid boyfriend to my ex, and I'll be a solid boyfriend for the future gals of my life. I'm a nice guy - Just because 1 Chapter didn't end how I hoped, doesn't mean the future chapters of my story won't work out, and probably be even more magical ^_^. 1
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