xDazedandConfusedx Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 So, I broke up with my BF a month ago. Reason was that we live far apart and he wasn't sure what would happen in the long run...blah blah blah. We have had minimal contact until Sunday. I couldn't take it anymore and I texted him. We ended up talking on skype for about two hours. Fairly lighthearted apart from us telling each other that we really miss the other person, how great it is to see me and that he was glad to get the message. The day after we skype IM'd the whole afternoon while sitting at work. He said he was upset about a dream he had about me being with someone else. We chatted about a lot of things, made jokes etc etc. I know that he still cares, but could we work this out? Should I hope that it will all work out?
realtree Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 If you truly want something, it can work. But you both must want the same things. 1
singme2sleep Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 I agree with realtree. Since you ended things, the ball is pretty much in your court. If your heart is telling you to try again...then that's what you should do. You don't want up look back someday with regrets of "what might have been".
MushyPeas Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 The worst thing people seem to do when they're in a relationship is think about things in the long run! I know it's a human thing to do, you can't help but do it but just enjoy what you have while you are together! Worst that could happen is you don't make it as a couple and hey, you've taken some good lessons from a relationship and hopefully get away with some fond memories/great experiences, best case is you make it and you continue making new memories and experiencing new things together. Just take each day as it comes, if you do get back together then just be happy with each day, stop over thinking and just enjoy yourself. On the other hand, I realise some people find it hard NOT to think about their future because it is pretty important after all, you need to weigh up your worries or doubts compared to how happy you might be if you just stop giving them head space
clw Posted March 5, 2013 Posted March 5, 2013 hello there..i'm pretty much in the same situation as you are..my bf wanted to move on but started sending me the occasional text message and asking me out for meals..giving me all the mixed signals. I have yet to find a solution and I'm left dangling..I asked once what's on his mind but he brushed it off and I didn't bring it up again. I may just do so so that I can get a closure and move on. It hurts to leave but at the back of my mind..i want to stay on so much. Take care
Recommended Posts