ComingInHot Posted February 28, 2013 Posted February 28, 2013 WM; How are you doing today? Any better? And remember as I think you've reminded others, as far as some of the advice here... take what leads you to a Better tomorrow*
Author wanting more Posted February 28, 2013 Author Posted February 28, 2013 I've read and Re-read all the replies. My mind is still all over the place. Im thinking about the advice to call and rip him. I really don't want to open the door for his BW again. It's a tough thought about calling him, not that I'll cave in to his words but I've always had an idea if I ever saw him again his I'd just turn and walk away, but hearing his voice and words. Doesn't make me want him, makes me hate him more for actually saying what he's saying. Am I strong enough to say what I have to and then hang up? I think so but I can't lie and say it doesn't make me nervous and turns my stomach to think about calling him. I don't know if that makes sense or not. Feels like I'm just rambling now.
ComingInHot Posted February 28, 2013 Posted February 28, 2013 WM; Ramble away Some of the most profound thoughts come from our ramblings* I just know if I don't get out what I'm thinking & feeling, it eats me up inside so I wanted to check in to see you are still some semblence of your awesome self* 1
BetrayedH Posted February 28, 2013 Posted February 28, 2013 (edited) Initially I felt that you should forward the VMs to the BW. But we've been this route before. Somehow she will twist this into being your fault yet again and you'll just have opened the door to continued contact from both of them. Keep the VMs in case you need them. Leave a scathing voicemail of your own for him, threatening legal action with any further contact. Then follow-thru if it does happen. Edited February 28, 2013 by BetrayedH
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