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we been of and on for ages finally I cut all contact 3 months ago. I do wonder what she up to. I know she been in relationship one week after my final contact saying I wanted nothing to do with her anymore. Could not handle a friendship either anymore. Too much went to pass. I had my first baby a few weeks ago and wonder if she ever thinks of me. Her daughter sent me a nice card saying congrats and I re friended her on facebook. day later she took me off. I guess it just was not to be..I do wonder if she ever curious about me?

 

She was always checking on her exes when we were together. Used to annoy me and we had many arguments about it. She is with someone else now. One week after I told her to stay away from my life she was in relationship with another woman on facebook.

 

When we were together I used to come home from work and on the laptop I bought her there would be messages from other women and she would say she was not doing anything. I believed her but did wonder why she was always on the laptop chatting.

 

I get anxious about it and feel sick thinking that this new girl is better than me.?

I done so much for this woman and even her kids. She was not all bad and I was not perfect. I kept distancing myself because I was so upset all the time. Even on the first date she told me she slept with 36 men when she was in denial later said she only said it and it was not true. She kept being friends with this guy on facebook and he was always commenting on her pics and when I questioned her she said he was just company? I would rather be alone than with someone like him. Plus, the last straw was seeing she added him back after all we argued about him.

 

I do not even know why I am upset because really it could be the best thing to stay away from her. It is all the hurt that we had over the 3 years coming out. Maybe I just want a friendship but I am scared she will reject me.

 

When we were together she seemed to forgive all her exes and was friends with a few and mentioned them a lot to be honest. But I think she is really upset with me. She asked me if I loved her and wanted a relationship but I was 5 months pregnant and my hormones were all over the place and I could not handle things anymore so I just said no.

 

Her daughter sent me a congrats card for baby so I requested her on facebook and said sorry for taking her off. I took her off because I did not want her mum to see my facebook. The daughter said she was happy to be facebook friends and that she was glad I was happy then 2 days later she unfriends me on facebook? I do not know why?

 

 

I am devastated. My baby is keeping sane. I love her more than anything. She was from a sperm donor but my ex used to check my phone even though we were not together and accused me of sleeping with the donor and then because I am friends on facebook with the donor she was angry with me but it as ok for her to look for her daughters dad from years ago and she got a son from a different man she said an affair when she was young. She is so confusing. When I am writing all this I do not even know why I am upset about it all when really she is so confusing. but she broke my heart.

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I had a similar situation.where.my ex gf kept in touh with about many exes of hers. A few of them came to visit her and stayed with her and I didnt even know about it. She had promised me earlier in the relationship she would.not contact anymore. It was a lie. Anyway, contact continued, fights betwen us excalated, our relationship went downhill

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