Numio Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 I recently got back in touch with an ex girlfriend who I hadn't seen for a year. We met up a couple of times and things went well culminating in sleeping together. It then turned out that she hadn't been telling me she was going out with another guy for about 6 months and was still with him. She's told me that whilst she gets on well with the guy she finds him boring and it seems like sex has pretty much disappeared from their relationship, however she is unsure about breaking up with him as otherwise they get on well and live together. Her boyfriend is going away for a month soon and she wants to 'have some fun' with me whilst he's away. I'm crazy about this girl and want her back and this 'having fun' seems like the best way of showing her what's she missing and getting her back. She has confided in me that she misses me and that we have a great time together but for some reason isn't sure about ending her current relationship. However just thinking of her with her boyfriend is driving me crazy as well as the fact that if I do start meeting up with her whilst her boyfriend is away and she doesn't break with him when he gets back it'll be very hard for me to take. I'm now not sure what to do - do I take the risk and have a good time with her for month hoping that she'll see sense and leave her boyfriend? I get the feeling that offering her an choice between me or him will just lead to her choosing him for the moment. And what is going through her head? Why won't she leave a relationship she's unhappy in for me who she misses and has a great time with?
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