RebuildingMom Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 Hello all LS'ers, I haven't posted in a while -I've been lurking around and doing my part to stay busy and keep up the no contact. My question is should I confront my estranged husband that I know he has another woman? We've been physically separated since Nov (4 mo), but he just moved out on his own into a one bedroom from his parents house. We have a preschool-age son together (and I have a teen daughter). I found out he's starting a relationship with an old friend of his and I suspect that they are probably rebounding together. I doubt that I can stop them from living together but the papers aren't even filed yet. He sent me draft paperwork to file for the divorce, the thinking is we can do this without lawyers. But nothing is official yet.
Mr. Lucky Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 My question is should I confront my estranged husband that I know he has another woman? What would you hope to accomplish by doing so? Mr. Lucky
123pgjes Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 You guys are separated, what can you accomplish? There may have been some underlying issue you may have with this woman during the marriage? Need to see what the merit is to speak to him at this inpass....... It is difficult. I often wonder what i would do if my separated wife went and saw someone else. I would most likely confront her
Gunny376 Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 Per my experiece in such things? Its pretty much over, did, done and over with. But given the children factor in the equation? Yea its probally worth one last good jab at tha' dead carcass of a dragon of a relationship/marriage ~ of a love that's lost and dead and gone ~ digging up bones. But yea! I would cross-saddle the railroad tracks and Scream, yell and shout, run around in circles with my hands, waving flags and settin' off flares in tha' air saying! "There's a run-a-way freight train coming without any brakes! Its on a down hill run! There's no way of stopping it and when it comes ~ when it hits! There's gonna be a World of Hurt coming down on your Happy Azz!" And when the 'wreck' happens~ And when the train wreck gets here! Its not going to be fun ~ and sure as Hell ain't gonna be pretty" 3
Author RebuildingMom Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 Per my experiece in such things? Its pretty much over, did, done and over with. But given the children factor in the equation? Yea its probally worth one last good jab at tha' dead carcass of a dragon of a relationship/marriage ~ of a love that's lost and dead and gone ~ digging up bones. But yea! I would cross-saddle the railroad tracks and Scream, yell and shout, run around in circles with my hands, waving flags and settin' off flares in tha' air saying! "There's a run-a-way freight train coming without any brakes! Its on a down hill run! There's no way of stopping it and when it comes ~ when it hits! There's gonna be a World of Hurt coming down on your Happy Azz!" And when the 'wreck' happens~ And when the train wreck gets here! Its not going to be fun ~ and sure as Hell ain't gonna be pretty" Ha! Yeah I figured a dead horse analogy might come up. I just wanted to bounce the idea off you guys. Gunny your posts always crack me up. Thanks! I'm thinking much clearer today (no full moon maybe?). I suspect his train will crash sooner or later - his dwi court is coming up and from what I've heard of this old flame - she's no prize. So I'll keep plugging along =) working out, looking good, journaling all the things I want to say and making the kids my priority. It's the bitterness and revenge thinking that gets to me every now and then.
Gunny376 Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 For the ever-loving life of me? I can never figure out why in tha' Hell 'Cheaters" ALWAYS trade down!!!!!! If I'm going to trade in Mrs. Gunny you can bet your ever-loving azz I'm going to get myself a "solid gold diamond studded~be-dazzled, be-jeweled Royals Royce" Playboy Centerfold of the freaking Millieum Playmate that is filthy rich to the point the it would make Warren Buffet + Bill Gates green with envy + she owns outirght both the Jack Daniels, Johnny Blacklabel Scothch disilliry! NO SCRATCH THAT PLAN! :eek: :eek: :eek: I'd go broke just buying up any and all the Navy Seals, Green Berets, Army Rangers, SAS, Isralie Commandos, British Royal Marines, United States Marines to PROTECT me from losing my Family Jewels from Mrs. Gunny! In the end they would just tell me ~ "We told ya it was a Mission Imposssible!" 1
ver13 Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 He is not worth it don't waste your time. He is already hanging out with her and the ink ain't even dry what good is he to you. You sound like you've got your feet under you so keep walking away from this one and if that don't work run. 1
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