bolase Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 Hi, I have an intern at work. He is not directly responsible to me, I just delegate him tasks (ie Im not his boss). Im late 20s, he is early 20s. He is cute, but a bit immature from my perspective, as you might expect. Anyway we share experiences in life and interests and have been talking/messaging a lot (mostly taking ****) outside work. He constantly wants to do things with me, or go places. He has 3 new suggestions everyday and it's too intense! He also told me he has nothing to do at the moment, so it may be just boredom or that he likes me. I don't want to date him while he is at work, but in 6 months time that will be over and i would be open to it. I'm not even sure if he likes me in that way, any other guy I would assume was pursuing me hard core, but he doesn't flirt, and doesnt seem to care whether I respond. It would be borderline creepy if I didn't enjoy it and he weren't so cute. I am just trying to be professional in the meantime. We have a ton of mutual friends in and out of work. Should I start a conservation with him about this?
Goldenbrwn Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 Sounds like you are really not that interested in him and maybe just enjoying the attention. Just do him a favor and tell him you are not interested in dating him so he will stop wasting his time and you get him to step back.
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