mikeff Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 I was with a girl for 2yrs everything was great with us. Talked about getting married. She took me looking at rings more than once. Then one day she told me she "changed her mind, and didn't want this anymore". And never spoke to me again. This was 9mnts ago It was rough on me and I had a drinking problem 4 awhile. Some random drunk txt. That was all. Haven't said anything to her in 5mnts... bout a month ago she called me out of the blue talked for an hour about nothing really. just life kinda.. text her couple days later and have never heard from her again. I really don't understand what it was about. I won't lie I miss her like no tomorrow. I really don't know what she was thinking or what I should do. Any imput would b great
Yamaha Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 You need to understand if she is really interested in staying with you she would not act this way. She called you for her own interest. It had nothing to do with you. SHe probably wanted to see if you still liked her and you probably made that very obvious to her. Iime to cut your losses and not dwell on the past. If she does contact you anymore just continue NC and don't respond. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't want you and IMO she doesn't want you.
AlexfromBoston Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 Women do not typically just change their mind on a whim like that. Especially after being in a 2 year relationship. My guess is that your drinking problem really wore on her and scared her away. My guess is she met someone else while dating you and left you for another guy. It's over buddy, delete her from your life.
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