CaliBabe Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 I just broke up with my boyfriend. We were madly in love and talked about marriage. Anyhow the way things ended is I confessed to a white lie I had told him in the beginning of the relationship. He got extremely upset and ended our relationship. I did all the things your not suppose to do. I begged and pleaded. I asked if he is sure this is what he wants... He said he wasn't sure but he was so upset and mad that he no longer wanted to be with me. The very next day he texts me in the morning and night asking if im okay and making small talk. I stopped responding to his texts in which he called me a few hours after I stopped texting him. We talked and he mentioned being friends which I refused. Then again this moring he texts and send me more texts making small talk in the afternoon. Again, I don't respond. His most recent message to me asked if I wanted to come and pick up my things. Pick up my things? It is fair to say he does not want to reconcile right? I am so confused. I don't know what to do.
AlisaMarie Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 I just broke up with my boyfriend. We were madly in love and talked about marriage. Anyhow the way things ended is I confessed to a white lie I had told him in the beginning of the relationship. He got extremely upset and ended our relationship. I did all the things your not suppose to do. I begged and pleaded. I asked if he is sure this is what he wants... He said he wasn't sure but he was so upset and mad that he no longer wanted to be with me. The very next day he texts me in the morning and night asking if im okay and making small talk. I stopped responding to his texts in which he called me a few hours after I stopped texting him. We talked and he mentioned being friends which I refused. Then again this moring he texts and send me more texts making small talk in the afternoon. Again, I don't respond. His most recent message to me asked if I wanted to come and pick up my things. Pick up my things? It is fair to say he does not want to reconcile right? I am so confused. I don't know what to do. He clearly is trying to get your attention. He was frustrated with you lack of communication and wanted to say something that would get a reaction.
Author CaliBabe Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 That is what my sister said. That since I went from begging and pleading to not responding that he is trying to say something to get me riled up. I ended up turning off my phone. I don't understand how someone being uspet makes them act so irrational.
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