AverageCat Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 No idea. Never been in one. Stuff like contact, dating, getaways, contact with others, outings alone, etc, etc. Anyone?
todreaminblue Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 the expectations i go into a relationship are to be willing to work at it] to be honest with what i want and feel to be respected to not chuck it in when things happen, to work through them to have the same expectations returned..... honesty trust respect compromise....then everything else is a cinch..you can deal with any issues or plans as they arise with those mutual qualities......if you have those expectations...i would expect the guy to want to be in a relationship with me vice versa.....thats number one 2
Jane2011 Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 Well, for me to be happy/reasonably content/feel secure, I need the following: 1) to be contacted every day, a few times a day (doesn't have to be a phone call though; I'm good w/ a few texts sprinkled throughout the day) 2) to see the guy a few times a week. Three's good (at least) 3) for him to act in love with me. 4) for him to be in love with me. 5) I don't know. 6) I just need to feel good. 2
Author AverageCat Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 Well, for me to be happy/reasonably content/feel secure, I need the following: 1) to be contacted every day, a few times a day (doesn't have to be a phone call though; I'm good w/ a few texts sprinkled throughout the day) 2) to see the guy a few times a week. Three's good (at least) 3) for him to act in love with me. 4) for him to be in love with me. 5) I don't know. 6) I just need to feel good. My question is especially on 1: To be contacted means he has to initiate contact or respond to it?
Jane2011 Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 My question is especially on 1: To be contacted means he has to initiate contact or respond to it? Well, I'd try to be equal -- or close to it -- about who initiates. But if I text him, and he texts back within a reasonable time frame and is nice/receptive to my having texted him, I'd certainly count it as a contact!
todreaminblue Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 My question is especially on 1: To be contacted means he has to initiate contact or respond to it? should be a joint want.....in my opinion
Author AverageCat Posted February 27, 2013 Author Posted February 27, 2013 should be a joint want.....in my opinion yes but what usually happens IMO, is that each person wants to be more secure and that security gets reached only if the other person is investing more into the relationship.
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