AlisaMarie Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 So me and my not so serious boyfriend ended things tonight. I am sad and need to vent. He lied to me about people he was hanging out with (girls) and wouldn't explain to me why I am never invited along. Yes, I am an eff buddy. After 2 hours of deliberation, I told him I was deserving of someone that was proud of me. He said he just had doubts and didn't see a future for us. That's enough for me. I just needed to hear the words. In the past I was drug along by his bread crumbs... I just needed him to tell me I am not worth it. I am sick of myself for being a doormat to these a-holes. I know there are good men out there- I am NOT giving up on love.
Author AlisaMarie Posted February 26, 2013 Author Posted February 26, 2013 Sadly, I see people on here that were in serious relationships, devastated... and I am selfish enough to be sad that my eff buddy doesn't love me. Seriously... I am sick.
baRx Posted February 27, 2013 Posted February 27, 2013 you're not sick...it's okay. don't worry about why other people are here compared to why you're here. you were here for a reason, you got some advice, and now you're here to give the update. i'm glad you two ended things. i'm also glad you got to hear it straight from him. most people never get that. what you need to do, is stick with it. this revelation you're having, "starting now..." -- you need to remember that constantly. i can't tell you how many times i've said that, only to forget about it down the line and continue the stupid sh-t i was doing. as long as you remember this & stick to what you're telling yourself, you'll come out just fine. good luck 1
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