yesfor Posted February 26, 2013 Posted February 26, 2013 (edited) This is long but i think in detail will be best for this situation lol Ok basically met this girl from a dating website and built a good relationship with her after 3 meets, by the 4th meet we kissed and she seemed like she was getting feelings for me over dinner as she kept looking into my eyes constantly and having stare offs in a love way. ok being a guy i followed me dick and said sexual **** to her one night when i was at home cause seriously this girl is so hot! She was shocked! started moaning saying your not like this no please i don't like you being someone else. Being a loser & my emotions took over and i started saying sorry sorry but it made things worse. 2motnhs from then on new years eve she said she wants a boyfriend for 2013 and hinted to me. She must have had drink in her system as the day after it carried on with 1 word answers. 3months later from the follow dick incident.... she told me how she was feeling, bearing in mind this was 5 or 6 weeks ago, She said "Listen i don't want a boyfriend at the moment! Me and you will never work because of my long hours @ work so i don't want you to think as me a future girlfriend. do you understand ? SO I agreed with her and played it cool and told her i respect her etc, and told her I've only slept with 1 girl which was 2years ago then she said that isn't healthy to be like that so I said so why don't you help me then. And she replied no your better than etc etc. Although I've already told her I been with 1 girl before but she forgot. Thats understandable coming from a good looking guy. So i tried to forget about her for a month and gave up as I had new girls but then see her on whatsapp 2weeks ago as she just got it. So I made a joke saying we don't want people like you on here and she laughed but then i ignored her to make it sound serious and she got worried i could tell lol. So she started messageing me this time and then over the last 2weeks i had her chasing me as i changed the tables acting like i don't care as much anymore. Now on Valentines day she claimed it was all rubbish but then hinted she wnated me as a valentine so i ignored that rubbish from her. Few days later she comes out with SO when was you last Lucky ? laid ?...I said july 2011 my ex and she was "like OMG That isn't healthy etc". Hmm thats 3times i've told her that! So I said "well what you gona do about" and she said "I'm going to do it for your health sake ..... So basically we made plans that next time she comes to my apartment she will cook for me this time and whatever happens after lol. Friday just gone she asked me to dinner as its my day off but she said she was really tired and couldn't be asked to cook she said aka sex, which was fair enough as we needed another meeting before this would happen anyway after 4months not seeing eachother. We had dinner and everything went well and again we had stare offs, smiles and she seemed into me etc. Next day she gives me a 1word answer and day after and after she has been ignoring me as she has been online and offline on whats app. Damn dude can anyone make sense of this girl ? I do feel emotionally attached again. Edited February 26, 2013 by yesfor .
empirestate87 Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 If I were you, I would ignore her and move on. Find girls that aren't going to play mind games with you. There are plenty of fish in the sea and a lot of them won't confuse you as much as this girl is.
Toddbt12y1 Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 She sounds like she is not all there and playing games; and you need to control your sexual emotions better... 1
chrisftw Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 SNIP I do feel emotionally attached again. i just bolded the only part that matters. she saw that. and it was mission accomplished. she is probably one of those girls that don't get denied. that's the problem with extremely attractive women. especially when they KNOW they're attractive. if you turn the tables yes they will come to you. but once the tables are back in their favor. game over until next time. but next time never comes because they already stole their ace back. had you continued your banter where you made her chase you. you would be with this girl right now. but you caved in the second she offered up the vag. she used her sexuality as a weapon. those are the most dangerous females.
Sporty Girl Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 Broad is whacked out man. Let her go. she will never stay with you exclusive. Sorry if I can't spell broad right you know what I mean anyways:laugh:
amaysngrace Posted March 4, 2013 Posted March 4, 2013 I was going to read what you said about your girl but I changed my mind.
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