Everyone is Replaceable ?

[blue_jay_bird]

This feeling is liberating as it reminds me I can replace my ex.

 

And it makes me sick at the same time. This that the world is just over flowing with lonely people hoping from one person to the next to fulfill the need of the moment.

 

I guess I just have alway believed in communication, and work.

 

But today, if your sad imagine that your ex will be replaced, and it is easy, chance are if you meet enough people one will stick?

 

Million and Millions of people, you think your special, that he's special..

 

 

Do not take your ex boyfriend's bad opinion of you as the truth. Nothing he thinks or says about you is about you, but rather a reflection of his own reality.

Edited February 26, 2013 by blue_jay_bird

[stevie_23]

You know, it’s true in a way. I’ve been thinking along those lines too lately.

 

I believe we can fall deeply in love and be very happy (for however long) with a WIDE range of people. It can be hard to find them, take a while to find one of those “ones”, but it can happen. There doesn’t have to be just that ONE special person who you’ve now lost forever and you can never be happy again.

 

This is also why I think it’s important to try and think with your HEAD instead of JUST feeling with your heart, in the early stages of feelings developing for someone. Are they actually going to be GOOD for you? Do they fit with your life and your attitudes about things? Are they married? Do they have any personality traits that go against what you want in a relationship? If so, think twice. Just because you’re developing feelings for them doesn’t mean you have no one else you can develop the same exact feelings for who WOULD be good for you in a relationship.

[richard9]

You know, it’s true in a way. I’ve been thinking along those lines too lately.

 

I believe we can fall deeply in love and be very happy (for however long) with a WIDE range of people. It can be hard to find them, take a while to find one of those “ones”, but it can happen. There doesn’t have to be just that ONE special person who you’ve now lost forever and you can never be happy again.

 

This is also why I think it’s important to try and think with your HEAD instead of JUST feeling with your heart, in the early stages of feelings developing for someone. Are they actually going to be GOOD for you? Do they fit with your life and your attitudes about things? Are they married? Do they have any personality traits that go against what you want in a relationship? If so, think twice. Just because you’re developing feelings for them doesn’t mean you have no one else you can develop the same exact feelings for who WOULD be good for you in a relationship.

 

very good words! i always believed in 'the ONE' and believed she was 'the ONE' i find it so hard to change these beliefs, but find for my own sanity i am having to. the second paragraph is good advice, i never asked myself these questions, i fell too quickly, maybe in future i will have chance to consider these and stop myself from being hurt with someone who is more suited to myself. thankyou

[na49]

I never believed in "the one" either. I think we're capable of connecting with a lot of people (more than we think) I was able to connect with my ex very quickly and easily. I don't believe that my ex is the only person on this planet who I will be able to connect with in that way. I know there are a lot of girls who I could probably relate to more than my ex.

 

I don't really want to look at it as "oh my ex will be replaced once this guy dumps her!" I feel like that's the wrong way to look at it. I'd rather look at it as "I will replace my ex with someone who treats me like a person instead of a possession and a dog"

[Mack05]

The most important thing is knowing and believing that no matter what your ex may think/feel, that you are irreplaceable. Once you believe this it will all work out..

[adelia]

Never replaceable just new horizons and there are many out there